See I need help. Its like this. I have his ons girl thats one of my best friends, she like the sister i never had(lets call her michelle), and on the other hand I have another great friend(lets call him mike), now one day mike came to me and said he like michelle. At first I tought "cool". then I told her that in secret, so she told me she liked him too...so I thought, damn, I can get them toghether. One week later, They were a couple thanx to me, the are now toghther 3 months and he told me he wants to have sex eith her. I know that what every guy wants, but this is my sister!! Now I have to say I am jealous also, not of the sex idea but I'm single and the are a couple!! Well back to the point, Everytime I see her ALONe I feel this feeling of complete relaxation, but when I see him, I think, where is a damn gun so that I can blow his f***** brains away...What should I do??? Blow my own brains away?? I really don't wan't to lose any one of them!
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Help?????? PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????
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hmmm, interesting insite, see, I got this friend, lets call her...rebecca, and she has this sister...kirstin...noe me and "kirstin" are going out, and i dont think "rebeca" is very happy about it
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The last thing you want to do is cause physical harm to anyone. It seems you have some internal problems here that you need to work out. You have a lot of different paths you can take here and you must consider and weigh each path. Once you've examined, the seemingly best decision will most likely still seem dark. "Through the darkness you will find light"
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definately do not blow anyones brains out. Try not to think of them as going to have sex but bringing their relationship closer together. Being this protective of this girl is also not going to be good for any of you. Tell your friend to just don't tell you. A simialar thing happened to me when I got two mates together. At first as you said it was great, but then you become a spectator. Then it gets to the point where you do not want to know what is going on in their relationship cause you are too close to them both. I'm not saying isolate yourself, but put a little distants between you and them so that you can still be their great friend but you no longer have this feeling to be "involved". It's hard, but you will get through it.
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"Everytime I see her ALONe I feel this feeling of complete relaxation, but when I see him, I think, where is a damn gun so that I can blow his f***** brains away..."i know this exact feeling your having, its wierd...