Oh god....so long just need to say it

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howdy A2A...forthe longest time ive been the funny person thats really run to hang out with im 16. im at a stange in puberty before i have what you would call a useful penis i got the body stank and all that but not the member. the only why this is even relevant is because im known as a really bad flirt. i flirt with all the girl even friends girls and it normally ends up me being able to get with them, but not actually ABLE to get with them. its happened 4-6 tiems now and its startign to upset me. i always have to turn down girls because i fear that the relationship will get to an intimate place that i can't deliver in. it's happening again and although getting to the brink makes me happy...having to admit to them that nothing is going to happen depresses me. there isn't really a question i just needed to say this out loud. god i hate slowly developing.

Maybe you shouldn't be flirting so much and wait until you're actually ready.

but then that leaves me with zero happiness in the tank...well relationship wise

I don't know what you think is wrong with your penis, but are you saying that "relationship" equals "sex"? Are you saying that you just want to get laid?

my question is....what do you mean by you dont have a "useful" penis. is ur problem that your cant get an erection? if so it may be nerves. if ur nerviouse enough that could prevent an erection....also one thing that i would recomend is actually get to know a girl before you to go running to the bedroom...if you know she cares for you and will accept you regardless of ur underdeveloped genitals it may help to put ur mind at ease. besides....there are a alot of things you two can do besides sex before you get to that point ...but i really must stress the need to get to know her first

allow me to elaborate because im being seen as some perverted thing...i do not have a matured penis no growy grow the realtionships i have with the females around me normally come to the brink where if we push a little farther we would become intimate. i can't do this with an undeveloped penis kind of difficult. its not nerves its not that when i see a girl all i see is a fuck stick. i get into caring relationships and can't deliver physically...thats my problem. i know i have to wait it out i just needed to say it outloud because for 4 years yes in mass we start talking like perverted idiots at 12 ive had to make up fake reasons why i never move forward with any girl i get close to

Besides "the body stank", do you have other (secondary) signs of puberty, like a deepening voice, hair on your chest, pubic bush, acne, beard, etc.?

16 seems a bit late for puberty to hit you down there, but occasionally it happens kind of late. If I were you, though, and I hadn't seen my doctor in a while, I'd make an appointment and get it checked out, along with a general checkup.

Do all 16 year old girls in Massachusetts expect sex as part of a relationship? Can a guy not say "no, I'm not ready"? Are there no girls who are happy with a non-sexual relationship for the moment?

hahahha no not all girls expect it...allthough we seem to be de-sensetized to the subject and accept it as a regular thing...and as for a list for my signs here you go
:noticeable growth spurt
:deepening of voice
:noticeable hair reachign from pubic region to navel
: past the sparatic erections part *mostly*
:begginings of facial hair and noticeable darkened hair from heels to the knee
:i also like walkign in the rain and drinking coolatas for anyone who isn't satisfied with my description

ohh and ps the acne is becoming bothersome...im predesposed not to have too much of a problem with it *thx gentics* but black-heads are popping up like gophers over here

Hey i have for the past three weeks have mild chest pains on left side, i got freaked out but then realized it was a strained muscle which has gotten muhc better, but today for like 20 seconds i had a twitch on my left side and thought it was my heart, does anyone know anything about this?