I am 18, and my girlfriend of two years is 17.. and we both lost our virginity about a week ago. We had both talked about it for a very long time and agreed to wait until we were both completely comfortable with eachother. It was a very emotional thing.. she told me that she feels closer to me and that we're kind of "tied" together now. Which is also how I feel. We both feel like it sort of made us.. one person. But.. she also told me that being able to say she isn't a virgin bothers her a little. Like she's.. 'impure'.
Is this normal? And.. does this possibly mean she regrets doing it with me, or is this a feeling that most girls have afterward?
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Feelings of regret..
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Well it sound like you waited until you were both ready which is good. If the emotions where good like you described and it brought you closer together then i doubt she regretted it.Maybe she doesnt like the thought of not being a virgin because she may be called a slut or rumors may spread or what not. That kind of stuff happens with kids "our age" (im the same age btw)Maybe she does feel a little remorse, you guys sound close so maybe you should just talk it over with her and see how she feels. Best of luck to you. -Fighter