As you well know I'm 14. I shave all my pubes off. I just find it more comfortable. Now, my mom doesn't know, no one does, I'm just thinking would adults get the wrong idea if say I'm at the doctor and they "check" me and my mother notices and brings it up later "Kyle, why do you shave down there?" or something. Is it weird for me to? Is it wrong for me to? I mean, it's no different from when I shave my face, other than the fact that it's my penis and balls being shaved.
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Would my mom be weirded out that I shave my pubes?
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HeyWhat do u mean u find it more confortable when shaven? It took me 14 or so years to get my pubes so there is mo way I am going to shave mine off. But we all have choices to make.If your mum happened to see u naked and noticed u were shaven do you really think she would comment? Doctors would see all differnt types of pubes an shaven ones as well - and I dont think they would comment to much.Its up to you - In no way is shaving your pubes wrong - its just personal choice. But you might want to think about it as there could be situations arise when u wished you had pubes and you get haselled for being shaven.If you are only 14 and already shaving face i would say u are will into puberty. Why not just let your body do its natural thing and let them grow - as that is all part of becoming a man as well.
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None of us can say whether she'd be bothered or not - you're the only one who knows her well enough to guage her reaction.
Whilst it is true that the shaving of pubes has long been viewed as being a rather tabboo subject (among men, anyway - among women it tends to be expected), it seems to be getting more & more accepted - quite possibly due to the internet.
If you want to clear the air, then I suggest you tell her outright & explain why. After all, once she knows she can't un-know, and if you decide to make the first move to telling her, then you remain in control.
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You're 14. Why does you mom have to be in the room if/when you are disrobed?
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Thank you SDP;That was exactly what I was thinking. I guess it is handy to have someone in the doctors examination room to take all the medical details/percriptions/appointment info; but you could probably be expected some privacy when you're going to be exposed, especially when you're 14.Otherwise, I don't see why she would commment; and to that effect, don't say anything about it unless she says something first.
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What do u mean u find it more confortable when shaven? It took me 14 or so years to get my pubes so there is mo way I am going to shave mine off. But we all have choices to make.Well I had a lot of hair down ther when I was 13 and decided I'd try and shave later the next year (now) and I found it extremely more compfortable, (ie: When you "adjust" yourself you don't pull on the hair. I hated that) I just like it a lot more without hair.>If your mum happened to see u naked and noticed u were shaven do you really think she would comment?Oh I'm sure she would, I have a good relationship with my mom so I tell her everything, I just haven't told her this.
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>You're 14. Why does you mom have to be in the room if/when you are disrobed?
She doesn't have to be, I'm just thinking ahead, to if she may or may not accidently see down there for some unknown reason, perhaps a check up at the doctor, or walk in my room while I'm asleep (I sleep naked).
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Do you really tell your mum everything?? If you did I can't see the big deal telling her that you have shaved your pubes. I am sure she will be find about it by the sounds of it.I guess it can be a pain with the pinching of hairs etc - but that is all part of growing up as well. You just learn to live with it and take it as it comes. Do you think you would get a hard time from school mates in locker room if they saw you were bald down there. That is another thing to think about as well.
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I don't think she'd be weirded out to be honest. I know I'm female so it's a little different, but I remember when my mom found out I shaved some (not all) of mine off.. I was pretty ill and she had to take care of me, she asked me so I told her I preferred it. Never bought up again. I don't think she cares either way - and I doubt yours will either! If the guys in the locker room make a comment, just ask them why they're so interested in your package, or ask them why they prefer a bush or something lol Tell them you think it's unfair for the person down there to get your pubes stuck in their mouth LOL
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Be a man and leave your pubes alone!
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I suggest he tell them teh same thing I told a Doc when questioned about it.I shave them because my girl likes to suck on my ball sack but only if its smooth, I like my sack sucked upon, so I shave it.Only in the locker room I would change my girl for your mom for max insult effect, or possibly sister, if they have one.
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how does being a man have anything to do with shaving your pubic hair??just because someone likes being trimmed up rather than a beast down below, it doesn't make them any less of a man.
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Do you think you would get a hard time from school mates in locker room if they saw you were bald down there. That is another thing to think about as well. I'm homeschooled. :P
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It's clearly your choice to shave or not. I know you're very young and maybe too young to actually shave down there, your mother can't really tell you not to shave. If she does, tell her you want to be clean down there.For your information, I started shaving when I was younger than you. But it was because I was too hairy and I grew bored of all that hair.Needless to say, shaving doesn't change anything regarding your sexuality, sexual orientation or anything else. What changes is all those feelings you get when touching that area, and the feeling of cleanness.
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Needless to say, shaving doesn't change anything regarding your sexuality, sexual orientation or anything else.Although statistics do show that boys in between the age of 13-16 who end up shaving down there at such an early age often tend to have undergrown penises...so you might want to keep that in mind. Feel free to check out the stastical findings for yourself. http://i33.photobucket.com/albums/d76/Razortceps/NewBitmapImage.jpg
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What are you trying to say? That if you shave early, you'll end up with a small penis?
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Yes basically...if you were to look at the graph it would support what I have said :P
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Yeah that's BS.
Maybe guys who shave already have small dicks and shave their pubes to make their dicks look bigger. That I could believe.. not what you are saying.
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I think PurpleWishbone is kidding around. The trouble is, some people will believe it.
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It's not just an official-looking chart, but it's on the Internet -- the Internet -- so it must be true.