It all started when I went to my cousin's school for their dance. It was going fine and then this girl comes up to me and asks if I want to slow dance w/ her I say sure. Turns out shes on of the most popular kids in the school and about 4 other girls asked who I was and "checked my out"(Im not that lucky at my school btw) anyways we kept in touch on aim but it was more like "hi, hi; had fun today , yep; kool" kind of thing. and yesterday my cousins and her mom and her two friends and me went to cedar point (we are all about 13ish here) and I had a great especially with one of her friends and I was thinking of maybe asking her out, but first of all they both live far from me (actually in the same school district) and I'm kind of a shy person face to face. help me out here what should I do?
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Two LDR's please help
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What you should try to avoid, I think, is doing nothing. Nothing ventured, nothing gained - and you'll always worry what might have been.Perhaps you could try to get to know both girls a bit better, without making it into a formal arrangement. The big difficulty is transport. Perhaps there are suitable bus routes; otherwise, if you arranged a trip to a movie with a friend, that's the sort of thing parents will supply transport for.
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Ask em both out! or ask the hotter one out... and then ask the other one out when that relation ship is over... all you need is really good friend making up skills and you'll be just fine...
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I knew the first one for about 3 months and the second one I knew for 3 years 'cause she is my cousin's best friends and me and my cousin are pretty close (not talking about location) and see her sometimes at least 1 a year at my cousins b-day party
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But do you know well enough to know what they like and don't like, and, more importantly, what their personalities are like? If you do know them well enough to move past the getting-to-know-you phase to something more, you'll have to choose one.
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or you can choose both...
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To be honest with you.. You can try asking just for the experience. But if you are not going to see each other very often then don't count on it lasting very long.