ok, so i have this boyfriend, and i like him ALOT i have known him almost a year and we've been going out for about two monthes. The sad thing is he acts kinda mean around his best friend, and he hasnt been calling me (he usually calls every night). he also hasnt been acting like himself (hes really loud and funny usually now he seems kinda weired) this just started happening and im kinda sad that he might break up with me, wut do you guys think?
Sounds like there might be a stressor in his life outside of your relationship.
On the other hand, he may be worried he dosn't deserve you (or that you will break up with him)
Talk to him, ask him if he wants to tell you anything, let him know he can trust you, and that you will love you. Don't pester him, asking once will be enough; he will talk to you when he wants to. Also, if the topic is unexpected or even hurtful, try not to blow up or retaliate; he will feel guilty and will probably lose trust in you.
Sometimes, people need their SPACE. I mean, he called you every single night???? I would just take a break from him for two or three days.
<span style="color: #00CCCC"> It's your thing, do what you wanna do. I can't tell you who to sock it to.</span>
It seems like this should be in the "Relationships" forum.
ok so we're both 13, things are working out alot better, i guess he just was really sick that one night. i dont kno about his best friend though. but thanks, you guys made me feel better in my time of doubt. and i know it sounds obsessive that he calls every night but we barely ever get to see eachother bcuz we go to differant schools, and we live about 45 or 50 minutes away. we have alot of mutal friends so we always have alot to talk about. not like you guys care but i like to write it down.