Pick up a girl

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When im walking down the city street and a girl passes me, how should i start up a conversation?thanks

u need guts, confidence and humouralso the girl will actually want to have to talk to uits rather confronting and may make some people feel awkward, so i've never tried it myself

well things like that dont work... you cant just be like "hey baby how you doin" she's gonna keep walking... go to a bar or the mall and "accidently" bump into her.. but you gotta have your friends behind you

ask her for directions! non threatening and gets her to talk to you for a minute. directions to a nearby coffeehouse or casual restaurant is good. (of course you already know where it is, but she doesn't know that.) after you get directions (hopefully she knows!) thank her and tell her your name. she might tell you hers. try to get a feeling for whether she is even remotely interested. if so, ask her if she wants to come along. whatever you do, don't use any of those stupid pick-up lines you hear other guys use. yecchhhh!

In reply to: ask her for directions! non threatening and gets her to talk to you for a minute. directions to a nearby coffeehouse or casual restaurant is good. (of course you already know where it is, but she doesn't know that.) after you get directions (hopefully she knows!) thank her and tell her your name. she might tell you hers. try to get a feeling for whether she is even remotely interested. if so, ask her if she wants to come along. What I think is that you shouldn't ask if she wants to come along, but as you're about to leave, ask if she has email. If she says yes, then take it as a yes for giving it to you, then take out a pen and a piece of paper and have her write it down. While she's writing, tell her simply, "Put your number down there too." After you have this transaction over with, then say bye to her and be on your way. Don't try to follow her around or ask if he wants to come with you because that can be interpreted as a sign of neediness, and she probably has somewhere else to go.

i would go for coffee or whatever on the spur of the moment before i'd give out my email and/or phone number. if after talking to the guy for a bit i decided i wasn't interested, i could just leave. if he has my email and (horrors!) my phone number, i'd have to deal with him for more than those few minutes. if i decided i wanted to get to know him more, i would give him my info before i left.

i guess i'm paranoid, but they can get a new email and im name and stalk you online....