Old Friend, Old Flame...

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Yay! She is currently spending the day with my ex-gf. If I do get with this girl, things may get awkward...

It doesn't matter. Go for it buddy! If it gets too awkward, you can always move on.

Not sure if I can move on, I've been obsessed with this girl for nearly 2 and a half years. I can't get her out of my head. Every girl I see, I compare to her.

In reply to: Not sure if I can move on And here, this statment lies the problem. You can move on. You have to believe that you can. If you don't, then you won't. It's as simple as that. The more complex you make it, the harder it is.Why can't you move on? You can't eat without her? You can't sleep without her? You can't breath without her? You can't stay warm without her?You can eat, sleep, breath, stay warm without her. Therefore, you can live without her.I was friends with the girl for 4 years before everything went sour.

In reply to: You can't eat without her? You can't sleep without her? You can't breath without her? You can't stay warm without her? I can eat, sleep, breath and stay warm without her, but I can't look at another girl without thinking of her or comparing them to her. I've even thought about her in the middle of intimate moments with my ex.

It will wear off in time.

I'm talking to her on MSN at the moment and she just told me that if I tried anything with her while she was naked, she'd slap me and walk out. So there goes the kissing plan...

What a tease.

Tell me about it! I suppose I'll have to sort things out by talking to her. At least now I don't have to worry about misreading body language.

I'll see what I can do about the situation, since she might be modeling for me tomorrow.

Hmm, I had a nice long conversation with her tonight. I found out a few things:

She did like me at one point.

She wouldn't tell me if she still does, but she said that as long as she is still friends with my ex, then she will probably never go out with me. But she admitted that we could never know for certain.

It was a rather confusing conversation, but I should be seeing her tomorrow. I'll try to clear things up.

In my personal experience, this really does sound like trouble. I've heard it before. Just be careful.

Yeah, I'm taking it as a no. Its the safer option. So I'll just act the way I normally do, if something happens then great but I won't be expecting anything.