I'm a 16 year old male from England. I've been to the doctors twice now, both times they told me my frenulum was fine, I know different. It has broken before during masterbation twice and I hadn't tried stretching it out in a long time. I came across this site 2 weeks ago and started stretching it from the stage of ONLY just being able to pull it over the glands on flaccid to now being able to pull it over the glands at 80-90% erect. Problem is, I have now got a gf and I think she wants to start having sex and I don't know how I would go about doing it. As in, would my frenulum break again.I'm contemplating just yanking it back really hard, hoping it completely splits in one go, or just telling the doctor to book me in the a frenuplasty. Please help as im stumped here. Also would like to know about if 5 and half inch length with it being very wide is good and natural for 16 year old and would give a girl pleasure.
Welcome to AfraidToAsk, gerogio3!
A frenuloplasty would give a cleaner result than yanking it back really hard, but I'm concerned that two doctors have said it's fine. When you try to retract, does it pull the head sharply downwards on the under side?
Your size is fine. Your length is the adult average, and it seems your width is over average, which may make it necessary to use larger-size condoms, but can help with giving pleasure. It's unlikely that you are so wide that entry is difficult, and even then taking it slow and lubrication and time solve the problem.