Okay there is a girl I know who's a year older than me. I'm in 10th grade. She sends me a text message on Monday. I responded to it later that evening. She asked me If I wanted to know a secret, I said yes. She said that she kind of had a crush on me. So I call her and talk for like an hour. Tuesday I call her and talk for about 2 1/2 hours, she seems to be laughing a lot. I also went to lunch with her tuesday. I wanted to ask her to the movies, but it turns out she is grounded until new years. We go on Christmas break on thursday, and I wouldn't get to see her on the break, and that she would lose interest if I didn't ask her soon. I invited her to church on Wednesday, she was sending a lot of messages, like sitting really closely to me, showing she's comfortable being touched by me. I'm sitting in here car after church, and decided to be brave and ask her out. She didn't seem real sure, and asked if she could think about it, I said yes. She drives with me to get some food, and we go back to the church. I start to talk to her and she tells me that she had a rough time with a last boyfriend, and that she is not ready for a boyfriend. So were sitting in the car talking, we start looking at each other, and she leans over and kisses me, like a french kiss, she stopped and was breathing heavy and was just touching our faces together and barely rubbing them. We start kissing again, she stops and put her mouth down around my neck, and says my first name, you smell good. Kisses me one last time, and I leave to get picked up. I call her later that nite to get her answer, and she says pretty much the same thing, that it wasnt fair to me because she still gets mad about her ex. I ask her if their is a chance in the future, and she says we can still be friends. Is she playing hard to get??
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I think she may be being quite genuine about her feelings. Having been burnt by her last boyfriend, the idea of a boyfriend turns her off - but you turn her on. So she's torn between hope and experience.
I think the prognosis is good. Take it slowly but surely, and I think in time you will win out over her bad memories.