alright. i realy like forplay, and it helps me enjoy sex alot more when my bf and i have a fare amout of forplay and i get realy turned on b4 he actually penatrates me. the problem is when we do have forplay and i mean even like 3 minutes or so, he gets really turned on aswell and then when we actually do have sex...it only lasts for like 2 minutes. and im still really turned on and wanting to go at it. but if we dont have forplay then he can last for 30+ minutes depending on the position we are in. i really like forplay...but i dont really like getting all turned on the being left that way after he cums. has anyone had a problem with this? is there a middle ground? thank you for your help
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Forplay or longer sex???
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How about you get a lot of foreplay, he gets a little, the you go at it?
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how do i get it without him getting it too?...cuz generally its like makeing out and that type of thing.....if you have any suggestions im all ears :smile:
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Everything you do (or can do) before intercourse is foreplay. There's oral sex, for instance.
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i have the foreplay with my gf, she turn on , but when she touch my penis, it seem not ejaculate. but when soemtimes i think on her when i sleep alone it ejaculte hard enough. my experience when i do try hv sex with a girl 1st time i pre cum , before i penetrate. i have this exp twice. till now i always thinking am i have problem on when intercourse. when i was young at age 17-18 i always masterbate daily. is that make the problem? Now im 26 so i fear to hv penetration cause always thinking i goin precum or too excited when wanna penetrate. How can help please master ?
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Hi kfloo, reading all your posts, I think you may be confusing "precum" with "premature ejaculation". Precum is a colourless liquid that seeps out when you are aroused - some people make a lot of it and some hardly any. It is not an ejaculation, and is normal. Premature ejaculation is when you actually have an orgasm and ejaculate semen (not precum) - it's premature if it's too soon.Mastubating daily would not have harmed you. There are drug treatments for premature ejaculation, but I wonder if it's just because teh situation was so new?