I have been a long time lurker and a couple of time poster on here, and lately I have noticed alot of people, mosty guys asking if they are gay/bi because they like to look at penis' or compare with other guys.And they need to know if this means they are gay and they are all freaked out because they consider themeselves as heterosexual.All I can say is who cares about labels?There shouldnt just be Heterosexual, Homosexual, and Bisexual.Why cant there be a grey area where you like totally prefer girls but once and a while would like to suck a cock.I am a gay male but am certainly interested in having sex with a female atleast once to see if I like it.I dont think you need to be labeled in one of those 3 categorys who cares Heter, Homo, and Bi sexual labels are all overrated just do what you want to do and go for it.If you are confused really think about exactly what you are confused about, if you totally love vag, boobs, and everything about a girl but you once and while catch yourself taking a look at a guys dick in the locker room you shouldnt be to worried at all.Sexuality can be as big or as little of a part of your life as you like.It doesnt have to be a big thing at all just go with the flow.
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Sexual-Orientation is overrated
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Couldn't agree more hon, great post
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Your post sounds great but the fact of the matter is labels will always be there. When you leave high school you will have a reputation with a label over it. When you work at a company you have a label. A company has a label. Everything ahs a label and it will NEVER change. Thats the world today and you just gotta live in it.
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There may be labels, but not everyone labels you the same way.I agree with the title "Sexual-Orientation is overrated" and what is posted above this message, and I wish there was only one label named "Human". Because that's what we are, and it is futile to discriminate.I have replied to most of the posts of the same kind you mentioned, and every single time I said "You and only you make your self gay, lesbian, bi, or anything", because only you can define yourself. Every single person is unique in his or her own way....that's all, sorry for the long message.