Well i'm a guy and when i cum, you get this werid and guilty feeling (i thikn it's normal). what about girls? do they expereince the same thing?My girl cummed and she asked me to stop touching her.. saying it suddenly felt werid. Is this normal? hmm mind boggling to me.. hehe
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When a girl cums
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I think if she asks you to stop it's more of a physical thing. I've had some rough sex and oral sex with my GF, depending on the pressure, speed, etc, sometimes the area is too sensitive to continue.As far as guilt, that mostly stems from childhood where you were told that area is "dirty" or private. Boys tend to explore and touch thier gentials more than girls, so in turn, we tended to be scolded more for it at a young age. It's very common for men to feel guilty after sexual gratification, and even urination or defaction.
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I think I felt abit guilty about it when I was quite young, in a kinda "That was good but it's wrong so I'm never ever doing it again!" way.
Sometimes after Orgasm being touched in that area is strange and almost bad feeling since it's so sensitive for some women.
There's not really a "normal" reaction, every girl is diferent.
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When most women have an orgasim her body goes into hyper sensitive mode right after the orgasim. Her body tingles and her heart is beating fast. When her body is in hyper sensitive mode right after an orgasim and most women don't really like to be stimulated sexually until that hyper sensitive mode has passed. It takes about 2 or 3 minutes after the orgasim for the hypersensitivity to pass. Many womem call it after glow. The best thing to do is to cuddle with her without stimulating her sexually until the after the after glow passes. It has nothing to do with a woman feeling guilty about having an orgasim.The best way to describe it to a man on how it feels is that it is like having you running as fast as you can for as long as you can until you are at the point of where your body tingles and your legs feel like rubber and you just have to stop because your body is over stimulated and weak. Some women actually hyperventilate when they have an orgasim.So be sweet and hold her tight instead trying to stimulate her further sexually right after she has her orgasim. Once the after glow passes she will let you know when is she is ready to go again. If you have not had your orgasim yet then give her a few minutes and most likely she will be ready to go again within just a few minutes.Also many women have to urinate after they have an orgasim. She might be afraid if you continue to stimulate her sexually in her private parts after her orgasim that she might accidently urinate on you.
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Ladybornin posted a good response.To add a few things:After you orgasm, guy or girl, you release alot of chemicals into your bloodstream and brain which affect emotion and nerves. This can make you overreactive to a certain feeling, emotion, or memory associated with that feeling. Often times a strong memory can be attached with that sensation of an orgasm. That intense wave of emotion can sometimes lead to an "imprinting" of association which can take a long time to get over or change. Sex in general is a very chemically driven emotional wave with an orgasm being that peak. It's not uncommon for people to have unusual emotional reactions afterwards from laughing to crying. Discuss with your partner certain reactions and feelings and be supportive. You may want to talk to her about that "guilty feeling" and maybe she can help you get over it. Vice versa for any issues she may have.
