Everytime I am with my girlfriend and about to have sex I usually have some sperm (or at least thats what I think it is) around the tip of my penis. This is a problem because I dont like to use condoms, but dont want a child either. Also when I do have unprotected sex with my girlfriend, I tend to ejaculate very early.... how could I make it last longer? Please respond back to me on this subject.
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Question About "Premature" ejaculation
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Welcome to AfraidToAsk, zoomzoomzomm.The "sperm" may be pre-cum, which oozes out when you are hard and horny. As made, it doesn't contain sperm, but it can pick them up on the way. For this reason, and also because you ejaculate early and may pull out too late, what you are doing is not a reliable method of contraception.Using condoms will not only provide better contraception, but it may help you last longer. You will also probably find that you last longer in woman-on-top positions.
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Saying 'I dont like to use condoms' is like saying 'I don't like work'. No offence, but you need to grow up.Nobody particularly 'likes' using condoms, but they are a fact of life - until you either want kids, one of you gets sterilised, or she volunteers to go on the pill or get a device and you are both fully committed to each other.If you aren't even man enough to wear a condom for your woman, you don't deserve to be having sex with her. Stop being so selfish. Do the right thing and learn how to wear a condom like a grown-up.
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Originally Posted By: brewSaying 'I dont like to use condoms' is like saying 'I don't like work'. No offence, but you need to grow up.Nobody particularly 'likes' using condoms, but they are a fact of life - until you either want kids, one of you gets sterilised, or she volunteers to go on the pill or get a device and you are both fully committed to each other.If you aren't even man enough to wear a condom for your woman, you don't deserve to be having sex with her. Stop being so selfish. Do the right thing and learn how to wear a condom like a grown-up. You went overboard a long time ago, wearing a condom has nothing to do with being a man. Maybe responsability but that comes with both genders.To answer your question about the premature ejaculation thing, that comes with practice, and one technique that is very popular is the "Stop and Go" method, if you google it you will get a description, it has to do with stopping and using pinching techniques, search it.And if you don't want a child then your goign to have to be responsible enough to wear a condom, or she goes on the pill. It's not fair to the life you bring in this world.And I'm not so sure but I thought I read somewhere pre-cum can actually contain some sperm? I May be wrong.
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"And I'm not so sure but I thought I read somewhere pre-cum can actually contain some sperm? I May be wrong."Maybe. Maybe not. While pre-cum in itself does not carry sperm, if there are any sperm "in the pipes" pre-cum will pick it up.
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You went overboard a long time ago,how so?wearing a condom has nothing to do with being a man.I disagree.Maybe responsability but that comes with both genders.It is his responsibility to wear a condom, not hers. Any type of contraception that a woman can take involves surgical implants or daily drugs that can really mess up her system.If a woman is willing to let you have sex with her, step up to the plate, be a man, and wear a condom without being asked.
