ok well im not sure how to explain everything so sorry if it makes no sense...
like i have friends at school, they aren't really very caring for me and they forget about me once im not around
im always there for everyone and i have a hard time being happy knowing that none of my friends are very good ones
right now it wouldnt bother me that much because im very family oriented and consider my parents to be enough to keep me happy but then i always get the feeling that im being a loser/ loner if i just stick to spending time with my parents
but i know i'd rather do that than force myself on friends who aren't that interested
so im not really sure if just not worrying about friends right now is okay
or if me spending the whole of my time with my parents is weird
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Im having problems
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Maybe you need to find different friends. Highschool is a hard social time. Are you sure that your friends are REALLY like that or is it just your perception.You might make a list of what you WANT in a friend and then go from there to see if your friends are doing that stuff, and your just missing it. You can also talk to them and see how they react once they know how you feel.I think we all need friends, but a good balance between them and your parents is ok too. Your parents have done alot for you, and it is reasonable to feel more comfortable with them.
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if they dont care about you, then they are not your friends, and you need to find new ones who are there for you and care about you. there is nothing wrong with spending time with your parents, or being a loner. I consider myself a loner, but you do need other people to talk to other than your parents, so dont get too picky when looking for new friends.
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yeah i was just wondering if it was weird to rather spend time with your family that your friends so im glad you guys think its not weird
and in my situation im starting to get the feeling im doing something wrong because it seems that when i get new friends they eventually start being the same way
but thanks a lot for your help :smile: -
It sounds like your friends are associates. Associates are people that you hang out with sometimes but they aren't close. True friends are sometimes hard to find. Just keep on meeting new people and you'll eventually meet good friends.