Is This Right?

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i have a few questions and theyve been worrying me for a little while now..is it normal for one of the lips of my vagina to be larger than the other? the left side like hangs out a little bit, im sure that sounds really weird..my mom has been hinting at making me an appt. with the gynocologist.. i really dont want to go.. i havent had sex before, but i do masturbate.. will she be able to tell?any kind of explination would be appriciated

Welcome to A2A, hvbabi07.

None of us is entirely symmetrical. Breasts usually aren't of identical size, and neither are vaginal lips.

The gynaecologist won't be able to tell if you masturbate. Even if it were possible to tell, it would be against professional ethics to pass the information on. An appointment is a good idea just to check that everything there is fine.

thanks i feel a little better about it now.my mom and i are pretty close and i can almost talk to her about anything, do you think that the different sizes should be mentioned to her, or is it unnessessary? is there a possibility something is wrong there?

I very much doubt there's anything wrong, but I think it would be a very good idea to mention it to the gynaecologist. She can check carefully, and tell you how she sees it, which almost certainly will be that it's fine.

If you masturbate while you're on your period, do you bleed any more or less?

I heard that you bleed less, but I don't think it's a sure thing. I don't think it makes a difference but I could be wrong.