hmm, hard to say. My motivation to read "She comes first" wasn't due to any suggestion on the part of my GF; infact, I can't remember where I found out about it....thinking....Anyways, I bought it because I figured it would be a good read, and lo-and-behold, I did learn new things from it.
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Endurance Trouble
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wow... well that didnt go as planned ibought that book and my fiancee found it and freaked out for some wierd reason.... i dont really know what happened cuzit happened really fastand i was to confused the whole time to really take it in but im single...... because iw anted to learn better how to please her ..... and now im single..... and so very very confusedjust a warningto some guys some girls apareantlyare offended that you have to read a book to know what turns the mon or sumthing like that (near as i can tell thats what happened)
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I remember when I first started to experience having real sex, and at first had similar problems.The very first cause was from the logical thought going through my mind that masturbation was merely using the hand to simulate the vagina (which, of course, it is), and that the action must, therefore, be the same.This was a belief discovered within seconds of my first penetration after I started banging away my partner soon cried out for me to take it easy, which I did.Once I slowed right down I was surprised to find that it was possible to reach a climax from such a slow & steady pace, and that my partner actually preferred it that way - contrary to most porn videos.Even then, it still took practice to get the technique to slow things down, holding maximum penetration for as long as possible before drawing back for another thrust etc. Another more obvious technique to make you last is to masturbate before beginning.While it's true that as you get older your endurance capability increases, you must also remember that a man's sexual peak is at age 19. However, this doesn't mean that this is the age at which he can provide maximal sexual pleasure & endurance - far from it. It simply means that this is the age at which he is most fertile, with the highest sperm count, and and a faster insemination time. After all, Mother Nature is trying to get us all to have sex is simply for purposes of procreation - the fact that it's a pleasureable act is merely the incentive.Once you pass that fertility peak, that's when you can start to make it last longer.
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Read the post "Biggest longest lasting orgasms". That should help you out. I described in that post how to ease off the "sexual pressure" build up. This should help you out.