Am I crazy I never have sex and I think I'll wait

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I never have sex before and and will not have untill i get married is this a good choice cause i don't see what is so great about sex why everybody is falling for it, why people just can't wait.

Just curious how old are you?If you want to wait, then that's your choice. It's not one that a lot of people follow.

I'm 17do you think it's that bad

Feels scary to talk about

Do you have sexual urges?

What is sexual urgesExpalin cause I don't know nothing about those things

The urge to be sexual with a female? Are you ever horney?Maybe you are just not sexually mature yet.

yes always but iI don't see the reason people can't wait for that but somebody told me that once you star doing that you can't stop

Well, thats becasue it feels really good. That's really the only true answer anyone can give you.

but it's not a problem i can still wait
so I don't have to be scared of anything cause when my friends are talking about that I think that maybe there is something wrong with me
cause everybody is doing it even people that are younger than me sometimes I think I got issues.

It's OK.. There's nothing wrong with you. Do you have a girlfriend?

nope that's the weirdest thing

Well if you did, you'd probably think differently.

its not good or bad to wait. its all up to you and the person you would be having sex with. and i bet some of the people you talked about who are having sex are gonna regret it when they have a son/daughter.

i'm so happy about those last phrases
Thanks a lot

lol.your welcome!

Its good to wait. =) Theres nothing wrong with you. You are one of the many people who chose to wait. Be proud of yourself, nothing is wrong with you.

It's a personal choice. I'm 20, been with my boyfriend for over 3 years, and we are both virgins. We have your reasons for staying virgins and we have an amazing relationship. My best friend lost her virginity when she was 16, is now 19 and has slept with 6 dfferent guys. She currently holds an awesome relationship and is happy.It's your choice, whatever you want to do.

P.S. Flaunt what most others don't have! A lot of people would want to get back their virginity for whom it was meat to be for. Be proud, be different!

Originally Posted By: WildcatA lot of people would want to get back their virginity for whom it was meat to be for.That's not always the case. I am, and have been happily married for almost ten years. In my younger days I passed, for my own reasons of comfort in isolation, on a lot of puss and dick that I now regret. That in no way lessens what I feel for my wife, it just means that I wish I could have had a wider more full experience of different peoples in life.Saving yourself for "the one" (which is not what I was doing) isn't always the best approach to take. That depends on the person... to each their own... my point is simply, exploration does have it's own satisfactions and rewards, so don't paint with to broad a brush.