Okay, so I'm seriously gonna ask this...When I have sex (with a girl) I like to think of girls that I think are really hot (Adriana Lima, Jessica Alba, etc. etc.)But then suddenly my mom pops into my head..What the hell is that?!?so then I totally feel disgusted and weird about it..
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Having sex with a girl........ MOM?!?!
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Is she nikid, doing kinky stuff when she pops into your head? :grin: Strange shit is always popping in and out of everyone's head. I wouldn't worry about it.
You might be better served to loose yourself in your love making and experience the moment for what it is rather than shuffling through images in your head. You just might find to be a far more rewarding experience.
Then again maybe your fucking a troll, how the hell would I know... do whatever works for ya. -
Lol, no!Just the thought of "mom" and her face pops into my headand when I try NOT to think.. my brain finds out that it's trying not to think of the thing that it isn't supposed to think (lol) and then I just lose interest all together :pBut I'm bisexual and this doesn't happen to me when I'm with a guy.. (obviously) lol
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if you dont fancy them, dont screw them, simple as. if you do screw, then you should be focussing on her, not images of women that you can only dream of having (only because they're famous and not because you couldnt get them, dont get me wrong). if you relax your mind and focus on the lucky lady hten there will be no problems in seeing your mum
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Originally Posted By: deadinsideif you dont fancy them, dont screw them, simple as. if you do screw, then you should be focussing on her, not images of women that you can only dream of having (only because they're famous and not because you couldnt get them, dont get me wrong). if you relax your mind and focus on the lucky lady hten there will be no problems in seeing your mumI was about to say that, but each to his own, I suppose.
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So I should just try not to think at all? Lmao..Anyway, this doesn't really happen ALL the time..Only sometimes.. and even when I don't think about hot girls and actually concentrate on the girl I'm with, I think.. "she's a great girl.. what a beautiful woman..." but thoughts just rush through my head (subconsciously) "woman... woman... mom??!!"Oh God, I must be a freak..
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There could be some sort of guilt with what your doing associated with your mom?
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Orb wins the prize for bringing in offical psychological explanation. And it holds water; both in the Oediphllian (Oedipus) sense, and even in the shame that parents tend to lay on thier children when they catch them playing with themselves.Although I can't say I've ever thought of my parents during a sex act, I have felt shame which I could associate with being younger and being told that area was 'dirty' and it was shameful to touch there.
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lol... we could bring in Freud here and say that he secretly wants to have sex with his mom... but I won't! I think you did it once just randomly.. I sometimes think of weird things when I'm having sex that are absolutely not connected in any way... and now everytime you have sex you try not to think of it, so you are.. It's like saying to someone "don't think of ... a pink elephant" , you automatically think of it!
