My boyfriend of 2 years just told me that about 7 years ago he was with his best friend, who is a guy. They hooked up on two occasions, the first time just making out, and the second time his best friend gave him a blow job. He said he did not cum and that nothing ever happened after that, and now they don't even speak. He hasn't been with a guy since and says that I am the first girlfriend he has ever told. He says that thinking about it now makes him ashamed and disgusted. So what does this mean for our relationship. We are headed toward marriage, and while I know I should be glad that he trusts me enough to tell me, now I am a little weirded out about it and I don't know how to take it. Was it just teenage experimentation and should I just let it go?
What does this mean for my relationship? Gay?
Sounds like it was just teenage experimentation. If you look around the boards, you will see a lot more threads by guys who have these experiences. I don't think this means anything for your relationship because it happened in the past and it has nothing to do with you.
Other than this, has he shown any signs that he may be cheating? If he hasn't, then I don't think you have anything to worry about.
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Listen to what Krystal said. Lots of guy experiment with each other, to varying degrees, in their teens. It's not uncommon or unusual by any means and I don't think it says anything about someones sexuality.So, if this says something about your relationship it's simply that he must feel awfully comfortable and trusting of you to share such information with you. I would say, if anything, that it bodes well for your relationship.
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Thanks, I appreciate your responses. I just need to figure out a way to get it out of my mind.