well, i'm 15 and a half and male. good starting line...over the last 6 months or so i've really hit puberty hard and matured a bit.i've been masturbating for years, since i was twelve.back then i did it occasionally like once a week maybe, usually more than that and then it was just for fun/boredom.now it's like a goddam addiction. it's like this: if i don't do it, i just get so fucking wound up and rowdy and nuts and then when i finally do, i just feel like shit and wish i hadn't. i try to stop myself from going, to make it feel better, but then i usually regret it.i've never been in a serious relationship, and frankly, all the girls at school are just not worth it. I've never even kissed a girl before, for fucks sake. I'm just waiting to get out of high school and im hoping to hell people mature up a bit.i'm just stuck in this hole of repetition and i can't get out of it. i'm so sexually frustrated.what do i do...
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Gets worse and worse...
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**Why do you wish you hadn't? **To answer this to my best ability I need a bit more information. I'll give it a shot anyway though.
You sound like a average horny fifteen year old boy. As long as you aren't rubbing it raw or to the point of blistering or it isn't distracting you or keeping you from other enjoyable activities, then there's probably nothing to worry about. Is it causing any of those things? If not, I say wank away and enjoy.
As for attitudes changing as people age. It does happen. College and work are different world and nothing like high school.
As for whether people mature or not, ...well... To quote a line from She's Having a Baby "People don't mature anymore. They stay assholes their entire lives." :grin:
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i got the same problem and I feel I'm guilty after doing and I wish I kwen something that would help me quit it
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hey your not the only one who hasnt made out with a girl. im sixteen and i havnt and im to shy to do anything lol. maybe you might want to try excersising or reading or something to get your mind off it if you consider it that much of a problam
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You need to find something that will help you not feel guilty -- problem solved.
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when i say "it gets worse after i wank" i mean, i feel like...um...i just feel worse knowing that i can't actually have sex and i just get angry and stuff.
just makes me feel like i'm being left out or something.
i want to have sex but i can't be fucked putting up with all the snobby bitches at school. like them going "are you gonna talk to me or what...?". that kinda thing.
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alright i'll give you an examlpe.
there's this amazing, stunningly beautiful girl at my shcool and she is literally the most attractive girl i've ever seen in my life. porn is fucking shit and boring, so i just think of her and go at it. and after i just feel shit and unsatisfied, then i go to school miserable and grumpy and see her wearing something amazing and i just want to cry. i can't mention the things i want to do to her here.
what i'm trying to say is, masturbating doesn't cure my hornyness.
there.
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So then, your issue doesn't really have much to do with masturbation. It's more about frustration about not hooking up.
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no, but you see, i don't just want to "hook up".
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You said, "i'm so sexually frustrated." That kind of gave me the idea that you're interested in hooking up.What exactly do you want? The girls at school, in your estimation, are not worth having a releationship with. You apparently don't want a quick roll in the hay. You have no sexual experience. You're not happy with masturbation.What are you looking for?
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i don't really know.i was hoping someone could suggest something.
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wacking off never cured me being horny. It serves to let off some tension is all.There is no cure, you rnto doing shit wrong, its just a relief, not a cure. The only cure for lack of sex is sex.