when it comes to kissing, i think of myself as a more sensual type- gentle nibbling, kissing the neck, the shoulder, the cheeks, slow kisses on the lips with just the right amount of tounge, etc, but sometimes that isnt always right- sometimes you need to lick somebodys lips, bite their ear, use loads of tounge, run your hands up and down everywhere, etc, so what im asking is, which do you prefer? soft, passionate kisses or hot erotic kisses? is it better to be versatile? how do you know when to use which type of kissing, or is it better to start slow and turn up the heat? no specific query here, just think its an interesting subject.
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Soft kisses or hot kisses?
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I like to start slow and then turn it up. I like that soft, slow, passionate kiss that you kind of get lost in the moment. Mmmmmm, so nice. And then on to the biting and hair pulling.
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Mmmmm...hair pulling :p
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Ahhhh!!! Hair pulling!
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I like to start off with the soft kisses, and then by the time they graduate into the hot ones they're the hottest kisses of all!
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I like soft passionate ones, then we can move into the hot and heavy kisses lol.
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I like a variety. All depends on the mood and stuff.
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I prefer the sensual stuff... but I can play both roles.As my ex used to say, variety is the spice of life.
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Quote: biting and hair pulling. ur scaring me. ok i was goinning to add a smilie but i dk wut one to use.
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Biting and hair puling is good shit, you shuold try it sometime, you may like it.
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Just about everyone has said they like the hot kisses. That's a load of bullcrap! Every person knows they would much prefer cuddling with the one they love on the couch to having sex with a hott chick/guy they've known for 2 hours. Or maybe my girlfrind and I are the only two with any class anymore... Soft, Sensual Kisses for Me
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Since when is class even remotely relevant to sex? Sex is a dynamic thing, some people like missionary with the lights off and no talking and some people like freaky penguin costume rave music traffic cone up the butthole snowboarding sex. You might think its 'classy' to just cuddle and kiss but i think being all over someone is great and is a fun way of letting someone know how sexy you think they are.
ps, im not trying to start anything, just voicing an opinion =]
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Romantically (note the spelling), you have a pretty unusual view on sexual things. Most adults (and some pre-adults), male and female, actually do enjoy sex.
You keep posting tirades against sex. Are you joking? Or do you think that it might be a good to understand why people actually do enjoy sex, no matter how much or how little class they have?
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Okay, "class" wasn't a good word. I'll admit that. and YES I know Romantically is spelled wrong in my name. My point was, as GREAT as sex may be. I was only voicing my opinion saying that I would rather cuddle/sleep(and I mean zzz sleep)/tickle/whatever my girlfriend, than have sex. and I realize some people's way of showing affection is by having relations, but not me. I don't appreciate being told I'm posting "tirades." People post on this forum to get answers and opinions from other people. I'm not trying to rage a war on a friggin bulletin board, but c'mon. We're trying to help Steve_a on his problem. Not aggravate people by telling them their opinions are wrong.
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Anyway, back to the subject. Me and my girl love the soft and easy going ones. Very, very tender ones. I find that very sexy. Of course instinct is to take it into a heavier kiss, but it takes me time to warm up, and we both love the feeling each others lips kind of thing,
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I love those 'take your breath away and get lost in the moment' type of kisses. You know, the kind where the moment they kiss you, all thoughts take flight and all you can taste, breath, and feel is in that kiss alone. I also enjoy those kisses that start on the corner of your lip, and they slowly work their way across your mouth; melts me every time! I'm a passionate kind of kisser and I do enjoy the slow sensual lip-lock sessions, but there are times when you just need one of those rough and demanding kisses, the ones that leave your lips swollen, your neck pink from all those bites and head slightly sore from the hair they were pulling on. Those 'tie me up and tie me down' kisses are the best!
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Originally Posted By: Katie Lou those rough and demanding kisses, the ones that leave your lips swollen, your neck pink from all those bites and head slightly sore from the hair they were pulling on. Those 'tie me up and tie me down' kisses are the best! oh good lord yes!!!