alright....my bf and i have been dateing for over a year and he has never been able to get me to orgasm....not for lack of trying i might add...its just that when he rubs my clit....it feels good....but then it gets really sensitive and is VERY uncomfortable...anyway...we were haveing sex and he asked me to try rubing my clit so that i could back off and adjust to whatever felt the best...at first i was didnt want to cuz i felt weird about the idea of touching myself infront of my bf...but he said that he really wanted me to orgasm...and that he thought that it would actually be kinda hott....so i did...and got to orgasm....but now im kinda worried that he thinks that im weird for it...or i dunno....thinks badly of it for some reason or another...so i spose my question is: gye's, what would ur oppinion be if ur partner stimulated herself wile you were haveing sex to reach orgasm....and girls, have you done this b4?....did ur partner think strangly of it in any way? thank you :smile:
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This is kinda embarassing
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I don't know about while having sex, but the idea of a girl touching herself is fucking hot!If it means that sex is pleasurable for both of you, then I say keep doing it! It doesn't sound like he has an issue with it at all.Hopefully he will be able to learn and be able to do it himself one day (to you).
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Hey, whatever floats her boat. I feed off of the pleasure she is showing. If she is moaning, squirming, breathing deeply, I get so turned on by it. So if she gets off, I get off from it too. So, if she wants to reach down there while I'm doing my thing, then she is very welcome to do so.I don't think you should be embarassed. A girl touching herself is very hot in a lot of guys opinions. I know I love to watch a girl do that to herself.
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Many girls cannot orgasm from penetration alone, but need clitoral stimulation. So, it's not unusual for someone to be touching your clitoris. You know what feels best and, unless you want to teach him, why not do it yourself? Websex's comments that he reacts to his partner's reactions is also common. Most guys want to see their girls enjoying themselves.If you feel comfortable enough taking your clothes off in front of your boyfriend and letting him penetrate you, why would you feel uncomfortable to have him see you having a good time?
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What the fuck is all I can say...Your a freak, you finger banged yourself infront of him !ohhhhhhh you naughty girl !seriously, so fucking what?your worried about that?My woman does it all the tme because I like it when she does. she seems to enjoy it herself its no big deal, dont worry about shit that doesnt need to be dealt with.If your that uncomfortable, tell him you want to watch him jerk himself off, Ill bet he doesnt think twice before pullig his pud while you watch.
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...but he said that he really wanted me to orgasm...and that he thought that it would actually be kinda hott....so i did...and got to orgasm....but now im kinda worried that he thinks that im weird for it...or i dunno....thinks badly of it for some reason or another.i do that all the time. its like impossible for me..not too. dont worry about it. my bf loves it when i do it too. ive never orgasmed by just having sex, but when i do that..i always do
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Me tooo... I couldn't just sit in front of my manthing and do it randomly while he was sat there watching, but if it was in the middle of something.. well yeah! Doesn't everyone?? :grin:
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i do it all the time in front of him. its funny cuz if hes playing a game or something on the pc, ill just start doing stuff and he looks over and he almost falls outta his chair im just that good.
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thank you all for ur responces...i spose i just needed someone besides my bf to reasure me that im not a sick freak who touches herself infront of ppl...lol
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That is the only way I can orgasm too. I don't see anything wrong with that.
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Originally Posted By: Curious2006thank you all for ur responces...i spose i just needed someone besides my bf to reasure me that im not a sick freak who touches herself infront of ppl...lol Oh, there's nothing wrong with you touching yourself, especially during sex and sexual interactions. Really, it's pretty hot and it personally turns me on. Anything to please the other person is very hott, so dont worry about anything, just please yourself, because it will please him too