I am a virgin, 17 going to be 18 soon. when i masterbate I watch hardcore porn and masterbate to a pillor folded up with a soft blanket on it. I only last like 2-5 minutes... im afraid real sex is going to be pitiful and im going to be embarrased... if masterbating only takes like 3 minutes, how long can i last with a real woman? Can any one put my worries to rest? or am i a premature ejaculator...
How long can I last?
Hey bud, who knows. Sex is going to be very different than masturbation and you'll probably respond differently each time. Sex also takes two people working together to make it fun, exciting and pleasureable for both. At your age please don't worry about it that much....chances are you'll be quick at first and then after some practice you'll be able to increase it. You can begin to do some things now though...work on your mastubation, try new things, add lube if you don't use it. SLOW down the process, take your time. Might try some techniques like the start and stop (get almost to ejaculation, stop, allow your penis to go flaccid, then start again) You may also want to visit jacinworld.com where you'll find some other tips, tecniques and creative ways for fun and pleasure.
when i sit and beat off it takes me FOREVER to well.. Bust..(talking like 20+ mins Can you say tired wrist )
Not sure if it is a blessing or a curse... Guess il find out.
And who knows you might last longer without the porn and just the woman cough
A pill to make you numb. A pill to make you dumb.
A pill to make you anybody else.
When i first came proper i blew a huge load very quickly now i can last for ages...
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Oh man. It usually takes me a while to blow my load. I think it's a good thing. From what I've heard, the average woman takes longer to have an orgasm than the average guy. When I started masterbating it didn't take too long (though it still took some effort), but I've learned to slow down the proccess. Practice with that. Also, it could be the hardcore porn. That stuff can really get you going. When you start having sex, take it slow. Don't go all out in the beginning. Take it slow and it'll give you both time to work up. Also, during sex if you feel you're about to blow, try stopping for as long as you can, and changing your position. Changing position is a good way to give yourself some more time without her knowing you're a pre-mature ejaculator.
Then again, you may not be a pre-mature ejaculator. Like I said, It might just be that hardcore stuff, and like that other guy said, it's a completely differant experiance, and you'll probably react to it differantly. Just experiment techniques with jacking off and try to get as much time out of it as you can.
Just so you know, if you pause a little before blowing your load, and get up to that point several times before blowing, it makes for a much more powerful cumshot. Did that once and it shot 3 feet Not only that, but there was alot more of it. I'm not sure, but a powerful and large shot might be something she may think makes you a better lover. Hell, all I know is that when I blow big, I'm proud, haha.
sometimes I take a while, sometimes it is quick. Who knows? Enjoy what you got, and practice what you dont have
Just remember, if the world didn't suck, we'd all fall off.
Just keep "practicing." You will start to last longer. Thats how I got to be as endurant as I am. :grin:
try a real woman ,and you'll see how long it lasts