hi, im 19 atm and when I ejaculate it isn't accompanied by an orgasm. Plus, i have absolutely no sexual desire what so ever. It's been on the decline like this since i was about 16.I can still get an erection, it's not nearly as hard as it used to be but i could still penetrate a woman.I went to see a urologist, he examined me and took a urine sample and told me that I am perfectly healthy and that im probably just not feeling very sexual right now, i responded with "for 3 years", he was pretty indifferent after that point.I masturbated quite a bit when i was younger, herballove.com says thats a big no no and likely the cause of my condition( but that site seems like a huge crock of shit).So i guess that just leaves depression....but i feel very normal most of the time. Does anyone have ANY suggestions, im going to see a psychiatrist as soon as possible( i dont think it will help though).thanks.
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No sexual desire...no orgasm
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Originally Posted By: catzor
hi, im 19 atm and when I ejaculate it isn't accompanied by an orgasm. Plus, i have absolutely no sexual desire what so ever. It's been on the decline like this since i was about 16.
I can still get an erection, it's not nearly as hard as it used to be but i could still penetrate a woman.
I went to see a urologist, he examined me and took a urine sample and told me that I am perfectly healthy and that im probably just not feeling very sexual right now, i responded with "for 3 years", he was pretty indifferent after that point.
I masturbated quite a bit when i was younger, herballove.com says thats a big no no and likely the cause of my condition( but that site seems like a huge crock of shit).
So i guess that just leaves depression....but i feel very normal most of the time.
Does anyone have ANY suggestions, im going to see a psychiatrist as soon as possible( i dont think it will help though).
thanks.
Sorry i cant think of anything
Actually you must be kind of lucky, not having any sexual desire without being depressed.
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Herballove.com is indeed a crock - most of what it says is rubbish. Masturbating a lot when young is normal, and if it caused erectile difficulties at 19 everyone would have them.Are you on any medication for anything?
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Well, it's pretty depressing not having sexual desire, i just dont let it affect other parts of my life, its still something i really need to deal with.
No, im not on any medications
I do masturbate quiet frequently, i think im addicted to it( even thought nothing really happens) Im going to stop altogether...no point.
when i was younger i would smoke pot, that increased my sex drive and i orgasmed on it, i realize now that was probably a huge mistake.
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From that article:Quote:Most of the characters in SpongeBob Squarepants are often portrayed as asexual, but some rumors claim that SpongeBob is gay. Stephen Hillenburg has denied this, saying that SpongeBob reproduces by budding. This is the most likely statement.Catzor said (I think) that he had a sex drive when he was younger, but it declined. He doesn't seem to have been born that way. I'd be concerned about a decline in testosterone levels, or a psychological issue. I don't know what else would make one's sex drive wane.
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Is there some sort of sex pychologist i could talk to??
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A psychologist would be a place to start. They know about sexual issues, among many others.
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It would be helpful to know what that urologist tested for in the urine sample. It may have been no more than a diabetes test, but hormone levels should be checked.
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I agree with ineligible. Your doctor should have ordered a blood test including a hormone panel to test your testosterone levels. Testosterone is the primary hormone that causes the male sex drive. Although you say you have a strong desire to masturbate often. Wanting to masturbate is caused by the sex drive. Having a sex drive doesn't just mean wanting to have sex - it means wanting to think about and do sexual activities, and that includes masturbation. With no sex drive, you wouldn't be interested in masturbating.
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No blood test? That would be odd.
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I had a blood test, it came back fine and the doctor tested everything from the urine testWhen i say i have no sex drive, i mean i have no desire( feeling of arousal) i havn't had a spontanious erection since i was 15 give or take, i rarely wake up with morning wood and when i do they are very very very weak.Overall id say im pretty screwed, judging by the appathy of my doctors and the lack of research pertaining to the "illness" i seem to have, its seem like there isn't much anybody can do.I really hope this is psychological, but i don't see how it could be, i heard that 5 percent of people ED fall into the unknown category, meaning the cause is unknown. I must fall into that category. Which means im completely f###ed.