ok so i kinda lost my virginity today. i was kinda nervous so i guess thats why i couldnt get that hard.. i was kinda half hard/half soft. i tryed stmulating it and she tried.. is there a technique i can use next time? oh and btw is it weird that i went around 25 minutes my first time? or is it because i didnt have a full erection enough to make it feel good? (dont get me wrong it did feel good but i couldnt get off for somereason i kinda just gave up after awhile because my legs were getting cramped)
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Nervousness makes guys softer. Getting oral is often good for getting harder. It also helps to do it in the morning, when your testosterone levels are highest. Once you're used to doing it you'll find your nervousness will go and you won't have a problem getting hard.Again, nervousness may have held you from ejaculating, and as you get more used to it it won't be a problem. In fact lasting 25 minutes may well be appreciated by your gf.
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Ok. Thanks for the input
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I forgot to add that refraining from masturbating for a couple of days before helps too.
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well as of a few days ago, i had the same problem and, lo and behold, it solved itself. i had been up to that point getting nervous but when i finally relaxed and enjoyed myself it was a great experience, thanks ineligible for the help and good luck to kaotic. sex is supposed to be fun, so let that be your mindset.
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When I lost my virginity, I had sex for like 2 hours (not bragging). I'm sure part of it was from being nervous, but it was still fun for me
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Two hours straight? The girl must have been very sore.
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the first time i had sex i went forever too and a few more times after that i could go forever it seemed lol.me and my wife girlfriend at the time kept score of how many times each of us went and i had her almost double mine i think that was cause before we found each other i was helping myself out at least twice a day.i know doing it urself is nice but there is nothing better then getting help >:)