One of my friends just told me he was j/o'ing in his basement tv room last night, and his mom walked in unexpectedly just as he was reaching orgasm. He said he did everything he could to not cum, but he just couldn't stop it, so his mom saw everything. He said she was cool about it and apologized to him and knew he was embarassed. But, now he doesn't know what to say and is afraid she told his dad too. Is there a way to stop from ejaculating when you have already started without hurting yourself?
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Can you stop ejaculation?
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No - once ejaculation starts, it is impossible to stop it. It is possible through intense concentration and a strong PC muscle to redirect the semen to the bladder so that it doesn't come out of the penis, but it is still considered an ejaculation, it's just you ejaculate into your bladder instead of out of the penis. The next time you pee, you'll find all the semen in the urine. It's called retrograde ejaculation.But other than that, there's no way to stop semen from coming out once ejaculation starts. That's one of the reasons it's called "the point of no return."
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The best advice i can give about this is to masturbate when parent's arn't in the house. Or in an area like a bathroom where they'res privacy. I know how to sneeze without opening my mouth, but not ejaculate... Whatever.
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tell your friend to be normal with his mum, i can imagine she would be just as embarrassed about what happened as he is........being wierd will make it something its not, a big deal......act normally and it will all be forgotten.
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I agree with Angel - she's just as embarrassed as you were. The normal way of dealing with such things is for both sides to act as if they never happened.
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Yeah, the only way I've ever been able to "stop" the cum is if I put my thumb over my whole head and push down as hard as I can. then at least the cum doesn't go everywhere and make a big huge mess for you to clean up. But you have to hold it there until you get to tissue, the bathroom, trashcan, or whatever. Then it just comes out in a stream.Also, t hat reverse ejaculation or whatever someone ^ up there mentioned when the cum just redirects into the bladder is very hard to do, but I've done it a couple times. It feels really weird, almost like a 2 second orgasm but them the good feeling goes away. Then you have to pee really badly and a white "suspension" solution fills the toilet.