ok so my fiance and i have sex alot and mess around and stuff...but i cant get turned on easily and it makes me not wanna mess around or have sex and im not sure why...so can somebody give me some ideas of why i cant get turned on easily and also some ideas of how i COULD get turned on easier thanks
is there something he is doing that does not turn u on?
what are the things he is doing that turns u on? have him do those first thing then mess with some other things
it is not over till u cross the finish line
Prehaps you just dont have a high sex drive, it may just be how you are.
Is there anything that he does/doesent do that you like/dislike?
Are you a lesbian?
Is he really the man for you?
Few things to consider... you will have to help yourself here as noone can tell you how ur feeling.