Ok so here is my story, i have a girlfriend for almost 4 months now. She has been with alot of guys, and she has had sex with like 3 guys already. I like her alot, but i am still a virgin. So far we have only made out, i gave her hickeys, and just feeling her up. And we did this kinda like dry hunp thig, which gave me a really bad case of blue balls when she was grindin up and down on my dick omg it was crazy.Anyways, i want to take it to the next level but i have some dredful concers.1)I am a virgin, it wouldnt be so bad but she has had like 3 partners already, so i feel insecure about that.2)I am half asian and apperently i inherited some asian genes cause my penis is a little under 6 inches!!! Ah thats smaller than average right or it might be exactly 6 inches. Im concerned cause shes been with 3 other guys that i may not be sufficient enough.3)I have tried on a condom before, and it didnt really feel that tight..Crap thats not good, i didnt htink i have a pencil dick, but i thought the condom was suppose to grip your dick and im scared cause it might fall off or something it would be so embarrasing4)I have no clue how to make a move on her physically intimately. I know she will go with it if i make the move because she says she trust me, and we are very close in our relationship we have very good trust and i think she is ready for me. I just DONT HAVE A CLUE how to even start5) We talked about sex before, and orgasms and she said she gets very upset if she does not reach orgasm...Ahhhh so much pressure on me because if i dont make her reach orgasm i will feel like shit6)I am uncircumsssed and i live in america, where people think its abnormal or something not to be, im worried if shes never seen a uncut dick she will be like wtf when she see's mine, and or she may not like it and not want to perform oral on it.I like this girl alot, and i want to move to the next lvl with her, but its scary, and im scared to fail, or lose her. Oh i dont know why this even matters, but im the 1st asian guy shes been out with. She is asian also, but her sexual partners before have all been non asians, so im scared my dick is not up to size..plz help !
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Plz Please help im scared to take it to next lvl!
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oh and btw im 18 if your wondering how old i am
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1 - If she knows that you are a virgin then she won't be expecting miracles. And just because she had 3 guys, it doesn't mean that they were any good. You could be a far superior lover, you just need to be given a chance. Try not to be too worried, confidence makes a big difference. And relax, chances are she'll want to make the experience good for you since it'll be your first time.2 - A little under 6 inches is more than enough. Stop believing porn and other guys boasting. This is said over and over but it never seems to get in, penis size is far more of a guy's concern than a girl's.3 - Have you only tried one condom? Go to a pharmacy (drug store) and buy a selection of condoms, or if you're too embarassed, go around to bars and use the machines in the bathrooms. Try on a few different types and makes, the manufacturing is different for different condoms so just experiment until you find the type that fits you best.Or if you have access to a credit card, Condomania can make you custom fit condoms.5 - Again, if she knows that this is your first time then she won't be expecting the whole works! Just do what you can to make her feel good, and don't be afraid to ask her for suggestions. Let her tell you the secret to her pleasure. And if things aren't going wonderful at first then don't worry, keep going, it can sometimes take quite a while for a girl t reach orgasm.6 - Being uncircumcised is not considered abnormal at all, nor should it be. She shouldn't have a big reaction to what it looks like, but if she does then you can always just pull the skin back over the head.
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wow thanks that was rleally helpfulUm 1 thing though, i make out with her, my hands wander all over her body when im touching her...but he only place i cant bring myself to go to is her pussy, crap i get rly nervous and tense, and i dont even know how to start it. Im nervous i will put my hand down tere and not know what to do or take it out and she will think im some kind of retard, or wimp
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If you're that worried, you can let her be your guide. And I'm sure she won't think you're a retard just because you don't know what to do. We've all been in that situation before.
