ok, so i've been going out with this girl (whom i've had a crush on for 2 year) for about a month and a half now, and i really do like her. we've kissed once before (very recently), hug, and hold hands. but i can't help but think she doesn't like me nearly as much as i like her. some examples: she's only called me about 2 times, she says its because her parents don't let her call any one.she sounds extremely apathetic when i call her and when im talking to her.i sometimes have to repeat things 2 or 3 times because she wasn't listening.but sometimes when i see her she gets really excited and hyper to see me. i want to know just how much she really cares about me, is there anything i can do or say that would give me an honest indication of how she feels about me?
Does she actually like me?
You could ask her. I know not everybody is good at being upfront like that. I dont know if she likes you hard to tell. Maybe her parents really dont like her calling people, and maybe she isnt the talk on the phone type. Its really a tough call. Maybe someone else will be more helpful then me
i would ask her straight forward, but she's really against any kind of worrying that i do and finds it real annoying. i'd be afraid that she would get mad/upset that i'm worrying about this so much and brought it up. i was at her house the other day and the first few hours were great, we talked, she showed me some of the things in her room and it was perfect. but near the last hour or 2 i was over she really barely even looked at me. im really quite confused because when i called her today, i asked her if she was upset with me about anything yesterday and she said "no". i dont know if she was just trying to be nice by lying, or there really was nothing wrong and and it was something totally irrelavent. if she really actually does like me alot then it must just be that she doesnt show it while on the phone or anywhere near her parents.