Big-time sexual turn offs...

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You keep analysing away there Steve, while I sit here analysing the source of your beef with this thread. Did you see a less than appealing characteristic of your own somewhere on it perhaps?Back on topic: lazy lovers turn me right off; it wouldn’t matter how sexy he was, if he couldn’t put that sexiness into action he’d be gone gooooone!

well he is my little brother, so I cut him some slack, but at 31 years old yuod thinkhe would finally embrace being a pig and just accept it as destiney

Did you see a less than appealing characteristic of your own somewhere on it perhaps?This is your usual strategy: Brush off the question, and turn it around and attach the questioner. No matter what happens, you'll just keep attacking the person. Not impressive. Emotional outlash does not trump answering a question.I hope none of your children grow up to be too fat or too skinny or too hairy or not hairy enough. "Sorry son, your dick is so small. Maybe you should look into the priesthood."We should have all kinds of threads about what we hate about other people. It would be great.

Ah. I'm not surprised you said that.Another potentially humorous thread gone down the drain by psychoanalysis. Typical a2a style.Another thing: hairy guys. I don't like hair at all. I love a man who's shaved all over.

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I hope none of your children grow up to be too fat or too skinny or too hairy or not hairy enough. "Sorry son, your dick is so small. Maybe you should look into the priesthood."

That's unfair to characterize her like that. I'm sure Starfish will love her children unconditionally no matter how they turn out to be, just like any other parent on here. Equating her dislikes with what goes on in the bedroom with being superficial is not constructive.

i think this thread went a little too far. its a little insulting.i mean, it was just supposed to be a a thread to have a laugh at...i know people have their own preferences, but some are a little specific :S (o and steve, this wasnt directed to you in particular, just you were the last person to post and im lazy)so for those people who lack self confidence from having a bit of a spare tire, or who has big boobs,or overly small boobs, can you guys just be a little less harsh? puh-lease?

I just thought about something:What about having sex with morning breath? Is that a turn off to anyone?

I dont think anyone even said it. but my bigest definitly is smoking.

I'm the same way. Just a peck, and nothing else.

Someone who smells bad, has bad teeth, and is a smoker.

I smell bad on many occasions, I have some teeth made of ceramic that cost me a great deal more money than yours did, and they are mine, I paid for them !Im a smoker, Im a joker, Im a midnight toker...wanna get it on?

Lol yes I know i'm picky. Just have a thing for teeth haha. Ceramic is fine, but if they're in the process of rotting away or look completely mangled then no.

I hope none of your children grow up to be too fat or too skinny or too hairy or not hairy enough. "Sorry son, your dick is so small. Maybe you should look into the priesthood."> That's unfair to characterize her like that. I'm sure Starfish will love her children unconditionally no matter how they turn out to be, just like any other parent on here. Equating her dislikes with what goes on in the bedroom with being superficial is not constructive.Wow you really don't get it. You must be actively not trying.The idea is that I hope she loves them, because they're not going to get love elsewhere if they don't meet the superficial standards of people like you. How shallow can you be? Very shallow, obviously. Very superficial indeed.Do you recall the "Am I an ugly minger" thread? That was nicely played by you.The original poster was offended by by a comment she deemed insensitive about abortion. I guess it all depends on whose ox is being gored. Such hypocrisy.

Yes a lot of people are totally turned off by smokers Andi. Though I'm a heavy smoker myself I totally get where they're coming from. During the times I was off the smokes and my bf was still smoking I'd kiss him and be thinking 'uuuugh' I cant believe I've been smelling and tasting like that for years!To respond to Steve; this is an example of a big-time sexual turn off that's part of who I am at the moment. Yes, I could change it if I wanted to badly enough; but someone could just as easily come on this thread and say they weren’t into anybody with stretch-marks, a damaged septum due to past chronic drug abuse, or an accent that signified they were from the 'gutter end' of town. None of these things are within my power to change and all of them would push me off that posters 'attractability' radar, but that wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. It’s not important to me that I’m considered attractive by every faceless stranger I come across on the internet. If it is important to someone else they need to do some work re self esteem. In any case; if you don’t like a particular thread there's no onus on you, or anybody else, to read it.As for morning breath; I think it'd depend on the person and also what they'd been eating/drinking the day before. No amount of late night tooth brushing gets rid of the dreaded Guinness morning breath!

Quote:None of these things are within my power to change and all of them would push me off that posters 'attractability' radar, but that wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. It’s not important to me that I’m considered attractive by every faceless stranger I come across on the internet. If it is important to someone else they need to do some work re self esteem.That's nice for you, as a 30-something adult. I don't see that many adults posting about self-esteem issues, cutting, body image issues, depression and so on, but I see a lot of younger people doing so.The universe consists of more than you and your feelings (look up "solipsism"). You just don't want to believe that what you're having fun with can be hurtful to others. I hope that your children don't suffer because of it.Quote:In any case; if you don’t like a particular thread there's no onus on you, or anybody else, to read it.I will comment on things that are stupid, dangerous, or ill considered. If you post what you post on this site, it implies that you can handle it. I'm not stopping you from freely expressing yourself. If there's a post you don't like, then skip it -- or not -- your choice.

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I hope that your children don't suffer because of it.

It is something of an anomaly that you consistently accuse others of 'getting personal' while you regularly do so yourself. Since you have twice chosen to unnecessarily bring my son into this conversation I may as well also include him in the debate:

If my son were overweight, covered in acne, with a bad attitude towards personal hygiene, none of these things would bother me more than if he came home and told me; "I don't fancy a girl in the playground because she can run faster/jump higher/hit the ball harder than me".

If he ever developed such an attitude (which would equate perfectly with your issue of experiencing sexual turn-off with women who operate their cars with greater degrees of proficiency than you) I would really really worry and wonder where I'd gone wrong, because my son has been raised to expect women to be competent, capable equal human beings. Politically-correct-Steve? I don't think so -- this just smells to me like you've let the mask slip.

I regard it to be quite sad really, that I've scarcely had time to come on here in weeks and weeks and the moment I do here you are, ready and waiting for another row. Have you really got so little going on in your life? Respond any way you please, I wont be entertaining any more nonsense from you -- I'm just too busy.