ok to start off,me and my girl about 1 week and a half ago had sex,i remember experenceing friction,i was totally fine,when i got in the shower i felt a burning sensation,she did shave like 2 or 3 days before,so i had like a friction burn on like the bottom side of my penis at the top,and also at the bottom,they were healing perfectly fine,i had a scab over it like the next day,1 day me and my giril was messing around and she tryed to have sex and she kncoked the scab off thus gettin it infected witch was the sore at the top,i went to the doc,he said it was a lesion,but i told him what happend,i knew it wasnt cuzz it was healing perfectly till my girl friend did what she did,so he said it could be herpes,so INSTEAD OF SWAPPIN THE SCRACTH,he gave me a blood test only,and a urine test for other infections,after that he gave me something called gentamicin sulfate ointment and told me to put it on the scratch,so i was doin that,the night i put it on,the next day i seen bumps on it,they were small,no red around it but kinda clear or something like that flesh colored,didnt hurt,and this is were i put the ointment at,i couldnt bust them either,and also at the bottom i put the ointment witch is where i had a scracth at,bumps was right where the area where i applied it too,then i get my results back,they said i have herpes,that was it,nuthing else and just gave me a perscription of valtrax,all my life i was fine,no sickness really,no nuthing,the bumps are goin away and scabbin over,i think i had a allergic reaction,but this doesnt seem right at all,they say you cannot tell if you got herpes through a blood test,and this was a clinic,no puss ever came out,it didnt burst and i cant even really find pics on the net that is simular to mine,please give me an answer to this some 1 plzz,and also my girlfriend has been pregnant for me for 3 months,she had all her test takin and it came up clear,plzz give me feed back
I REALLY NEED HELP!! I think i been miss diagnosed
First of all I think you should wear a condom at all times now with your girlfriend...especially with her being pregnant until all this is sorted out.
A few questions...
Was it your doctor or an std clinic that did your blood test?
If they say it came back positive and your not happy with that diagnosis then I would ask for another one. Also if you have another rash, blister or whatever come up I would book an appointment straight away and demand a swab get taken.
Did your girlfriend tell whoever she got tested by that your blood test came back positive for Herpes?
With your girlfriend being pregnant and you doubting if you have Herpes or not I would definitely be careful. If you get tested again and the results are still as before I would advise your girlfriend to go back and get retested and voice her concerns about being pregnant while you have herpes. Catching herpes while pregnant is more dangerous than catching herpes before it. Your child could be at serious risk if she isn't diagnosed correctly if she has it.
In fact if I were your girlfriend and I even got such as a slight irritation down below i'd be back at the doctors and I wouldn't be having sex until all this is sorted out.
Good Luck I know how scary it can be.