Fingered....

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Ok, Im 13, and I was at my friend's house (friend is a guy), and his parents werent home, so everyone there decieded to have a party... I was lying on my friend's bed,and a guy that I really like came n lied down next to me, and started to hold my hand, and stuff like that. Well, a lil while later, I went down in the basement with , and we were leying on a bed together, and he started fingering me through my jeans. I think that at first he thought that I wouldnt want him to, but then when he started fingering me, he noticed that I didnt mind it. Then my bff came down, n she was lying with us on the other side of the guy, n I didnt really mind, cuzI was still getting attention from him. When she had to leave, the guy n I had some fun by ourselves... He kept fingering me for a while, then, he got closer to me until he was pretty much ontop of me, and started dry humping me. I really liked it because it was the first time something like that happened to me. After about 5 min., my friend who was staying over at my house came down to see what we were doing (she didnt catch us though). She stayed down with us, and he started tickling her, and when he was tickling her, he was fingering me harder, and when she left, we went back to before, and he asked me if I liked it, and (of course) I said yes... He started getting tired, and we all had to leave, so he told me that he wouldnt tell anyone at school unless I didnt care... Well, I didnt want ppl at school to know, so we both agreed not to tell everyone. I told my bff since she was woundering what was going on when she was there, and she said that she wouldnt tell anyone. I also told like 3 other ppl who I know I can trust, and they promised that they hadnt told anyone, but somehow, ppl at school knew... I thought that it was the guy, so I asked him, n he said that it wasnt him. I believed him... Now, ppl in shcool are saying that Im a slut, whore, and a skank... idk if its true, even though I was with the guy... Can someone help me??

it was the guyp.s. next time, dont tell anyone and no one will know.

It might also have been the girls - they may have told other people if they promised not to tell. For some reason some people think that doesn't break the promise, but the effect is that soon everyone knows. The only way to keep a secret for sure is to tell no-one (though in this case you couldn't stop the guy knowing).

claim rape

First off, how old is this guy? You are waaaaay too young to be messing around like that. How long have you known him?

I believe it's the girls. You know girls gossip, and when one girl knows something, all the others will find it out in no time.Of course it could be the guy, but only if he is used to doing this. If it was also his first time, then I definitely say it's the girls.You poor thing, it's so unfair to call you names after that. I 'm sure the other girls aren't that innocent... Don't worry, they 're going to let it off sometime.

What do they care? As long as you ignore them and don't do anything like, "OMG! Lies!" then people won't care and will move on. The ones who hold a grudge are too immature to be bothered with.
But I agree, you're too young to be doing that. Got to wait till high school, that's where the fun really starts. :smile:

Hehe some would say college, but who knows anymore. When I have children they're gonna live in a box, lol.

Originally Posted By: poplyclaim rape agreed....nah j/k just ignore them, I know people say it all the time, but it actually does work if you just stick to it.

Originally Posted By: Thatguy12345

Originally Posted By: poply

claim rape
agreed....

nah j/k just ignore them, I know people say it all the time, but it actually does work if you just stick to it.

Are you saying stick with the claim of rape or stick with ignoring them. I hope it's the latter. I think that's what you mean I'm just looking for a little clarification and reassurance.

Claiming rape is wrong on so many levels it shouldn't have to be explained. But frankly, I am surprised that no one pointed out what a fucking moronic idiotic answer "claim rape" is and just how dangerous such an action might be to everyone, much less what it does to real rape victims.

Totally agree!!

actually I hadnt read this before now, claim rape is moronic and chickenshit.claim rape have some poor fucking kid locked up withthat on his lifetime record so you can feel good about yourself and not have epople look at you sideways because youll put out.I had a friend go through that.He was 22 years old, fucked this girl who was hanging all over him at a party, hre hand down his pants, grabbing his dick, sucking his ear and face off, and he fucked her. there was easy 200 people at that party and soon everyone knew she had put out. Soon he was arested on rape charges because she didnt like that anyone knew, it cost him an assload of money and had it not been for me and a couple other people testifying that she told us she was going to fuck him and some pics that had been taken at that party he would of been fucked, literally, with a sexual rape charge on his ass forever.

Don't forget; in many places you have to also register as a sex offender: So you'd be put in the same class as child molesters (and treated the same by the public)