I recently started seeing a new guy. I went down on him for the first time. I thought everything was going well (he seemed to be enjoying it at least somewhat), untill he pulled me up to kiss me before he came--basically it seems to get me to stop. He was aware that we weren't going to have sex that night. I was a bit hurt, would this be a sign he wasn't enjoying himself? I've never experienced this before, so it felt a bit like rejection. Have any females expereinced this before? Guys would you pull a girl away if you weren't enjoying her technique? I'm a bit of a worrier, so I know it may not mean all that much, but any response would be appreciated!
Going down on a guy
He might have been respecting you by not coming all over your face... that's a good thing if it was that, at least he was respecting your feelings!
There are loads of possibilities - I don't know of one guy that doesn't enjoy head, one of my friends has a saying that "no blowjob is a bad blowjob" (annoying I know, but according to a few of them it's true lol) so I doubt you were doing badly!! I bet he was enjoying himself
I have to agree with Amy, it was probably cos he didn't want to cum in your mouth or face......relax hon :smile:
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I don't think you have anything to worry about. As a guy, I ain't gonna bust a nut all over somebody or cum in their mouth 'till I know they're good with it. He was just showing sexual courtesy nothing more to it than that.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
I appreciate the responses! Thanks
a guy who doesn't want to have sex right away, your lucky. Most other girls end up getting "claimed" with the regular boyfriends.
Yeah unless I was specifically requested to cum in her mouth/on her face I don't think I could ever do that. Just doesn't seem respectful to me, unless she wanted it.
well my last girlfriend made the mistake of breaking up with me because (well at least I think so) I wanted to wait. Unfortuneatly for her I met the love of my life and I could'nt be happier. So don't worry I agree with the other people he didn't want to disrespect you by doing what he did.
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Hold on right there miss.
That is in no way a manner of disrespect or a sign that he was not enjoying himself.
I view kisses, especially kissing that doesn't lead to sex, as an extremely intimate and powerful way to bond with your significant other. When my girlfriend is going to give me head, I pull her up from time to time for a few reasons:
a) If I let her continue I'd cum way too fast
b) She's doing all the work so I like to give her a breather
and most importantly, even moreso than the above statements:
c) I want my girlfriend to know that I appreciate to no extent her willingness to make me feel good and I want her to feel special.
Most guys will just let a girl give them head, then they'll bust their load in the girl's mouth or face or whatnot without any warning and roll over and pass out. Would you rather that, or your boyfriend stopping you to give you a kiss?