here is another question for the qyes.....if your girlfriend origionally told you that she didnt masterbate when you first started dateing because she was embaresed, then later (after she was more comfortable with you, and the topic) told you when you asked her again if she did...that she did from time to time....would you think it was wierd, or nasty for her to do so?
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Would you care?
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Certainly not. After all, practically all guys masturbate. And girls who masturbate are hornier.
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every girl trys to deny masturbating but you see there lieing in their eyes
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ha...thats funny...if my bf new that i was lieing then im glad he didnt call me on it....i probably would have died of embaresment...lol
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Quote:And girls who masturbate are hornier.\Really???
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I think he will be glad to know that you masterbate, I think it turns guys on. I'm sure he'll understand that you were embarassed before and will be glad you're comfortable telling him now.
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Originally Posted By: Curious2006
here is another question for the qyes.....if your girlfriend origionally told you that she didnt masterbate when you first started dateing because she was embaresed, then later (after she was more comfortable with you, and the topic) told you when you asked her again if she did...that she did from time to time....would you think it was wierd, or nasty for her to do so?
Naw! for most people [sept the people on this forum :P] masturbation is a subject of 'Taboo' nature. And whether or not a person says he does or not is rarely an opening topic for a first date :P.
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not in the slightest, for soem odd reason, masturbation is a "unspeakable" thing, even more so i notice than sex, and if she didnt feel comfortable tellign me and now does, well happy birthday to me! that is of course, if i had a gf...I'm looking though...
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i would most definitively not. I'm soo comfortable with the fact that if i had a gf, she would be human just like anyone else, and humans have sexual needs. Heck, if she asked me if i masturbate, i wouldn't lie to her. I'd just tell her. And even if she did feel a bit of ashamed in the beginning, i would understand, and it's not her fault she would feel that way. It's better if you let time take its course and let the two people become closer and more comfortable with each other's secrets and sexual life. Don't you agree?
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Originally Posted By: katonsuiiton
Heck, if she asked me if i masturbate, i wouldn't lie to her. I'd just tell her.
yea, but it's considered more "dirty" for a women to masterbate then for a man. People just know that all guys do it. But with women some people think thats it's dirty or women aren't sposta want sex or sumthing stupid like that. One of my friends once told me she thort it was "discusting" -
Originally Posted By: ClassyBlackWoman
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And girls who masturbate are hornier.\
Really???
yeah i beg to differ. from my experiences the one gf i had who never did anythin sexual with herslef or anyone before me was the most sexual person ive ever met. i love it!i guess i kinda opened the door for her and she hasnt gone back.and even if a girl does masturbate, if she is actually comfortable with you its no issue.