this always happens. i like a girl, a lot, and im not doing anything about it.we made out at a party and she jerked me off two and a half weeks ago, but she was drunk...i was a little drunk too. I like her so much, shes so hot and i think about her constantly...but i havent even said hi to her since. All my friends think im pathetic. Shes in two of my lessons, but this guy whos being an asshole, he hates me and likes her, is always with her in one lesson so i cant talk to her then cuz its awkward, and in the other lesson its not too easy either...i dunno thinking about it now it seems like no big deal, like why dont i just talk to her, but when the time comes i just freeze up and choose not to. my approach anxiety is horrible with this girl. So im asking should i even bother now? Its been a week without so much as a hello. Should i try and acknowledge that or just pretend i didnt flake on it, and how do i tackle my approach anxiety and just tell her i like her? and i mean...i never asked a girl out before, so should i just say 'i like you' or 'i like you will you go out with me'? [extra question, not relevant but felt like asking and couldnt be assed to make two threads- do you think if you're hitting on someone it helps to be drunk/high? Cuz if im talking to a tipsy girl and im sober, im scared shell think im taking advantage, but if im drunk maybe im more trustworthy]
Geeze, you keep doing it over and over. You really need to just talk to this girl, SOBER. Two and a half weeks out or not. You like her, and unless you tell her, she will never know. Plus if you fooled around with her, she is just gonna think your a user. I sure would.No one is comfortable with anything the first time they do it. Practice DOES make perfect (or at least a lot better). So, what are you REALLY afraid of if you talk to a girl?You need to tell her, that you have a hard time talking to girls, she MIGHT just think that is cute, but don't let her think your a user. If you don't get up the courage and talk to her, well, then I guess you are.
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." -- Theodor Seuss Geisel
You fucking know what to do, you know you have to do it or forever not know. Why make posts about it? grab your sack, walk over and talk to her.The extra credit question:Of course its easier, your looser, more relaxed, the more relaxed you are the easier it is to open yourself up to rejection and go talk to random girls.Its also possible to not be thinking right, ask out one you didnt really want to, or far worse, to slip up and say the wrong shit, make a fucking fiasco of it instead of directly plainly asking her what it is you want to know.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.