This question has probably been asked before, but oh well.Right so, First of all.. Im a Virgin. Secondly, I masterbate like.. well.. 1 or 2 times a week. I was wondering, if that will do any damage, or make any difference whenever I have sex??Also, will it take longer to reach orgasm when having sex, or about the same time ((which for me, sometimes can take from 30 seconds to 4 minutes depending on what Im doing))
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Can masterbating ruin sex??
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It won't do any damage or affect sex, except you'll have a better knowledge of what turns you on, which is a good thing.Women usually find it takes longer to reach orgasm in sex.
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Yeah, especially if you are only masturbating a couple of times a week.
I think (and this isn't scientific here) there's reason to believe that if you jack off like 5 times a day for several years, you might find that your penis won't initially respond to sex with another person as intensely as it does your own hand. But you are no where near that.
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I could be wrong but I had thought that that only holds true IF they were using vibrators and even at atht were doing it fairly regularly.
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I dont buy that Damien. Iv been jerking off 2 or 3 times a day for about 20 years.I have no problem reaching orgasm with sex, but it does take longer than if Im just wacking away.Sex as a normal for us unless its a quiky, is 1 to 3 hours. That time includes foreplay, oral and swapping positons.Ther is also a fe things that she can do that mean an almost immediate end of sex because I simply can not take much of them all at once with out busting a nut.
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I think I 've heard of it before, but I don't buy it either.Masturbating cannot ruin sex, it may enhance it though.Well said, Grvtykllr.
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I think if you only masturate, and don't have sex, you can get habituated to the feeling of masturbation, and might have more difficulty responding to sex. Also, if you use a tight grip for a long time, you might desensitize the penis head, at least temporarily, which might interfere with the more subtle feeling of intercourse.
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Exactly.I think that's what I was trying to say in my drive-by kind of way.
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what so it won't feel as good?
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Yes, or so you won't be able to feel it as much.Can sex ruin masturbation?
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Iv had alot of sex, Iv had alot of wack a mole sessions too, sex never ruined any of them, even when Im getting plenty of sex, I still like to run a load of laundry by hand.
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But if it's a small load, you'll do it by hand?
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I refuse to answer that on teh grounds that it has no right answer and only makes me look like my dick is the size of a tic tac.
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hmm, this all is interesting to know..But, Just so its cleared up..Im a girl..