I have a query for anyone who's willin to listen, better still, answer. i was on the bed with my gf yesterday and i was concentratin on her g-spot. she said she was bout 8/10 close to cummin. she said she felt like she needed to pee. i know this is a normal sensation when the g-spot is stimulated&used. however, my gf never cums via penetration. thats the closest she said she's ever got. i believe i can make her cum via penetration, either by sex or hand. and if i don't, well, i'll enjoy tryin but i was wonderin does anyone know any good sexual positions in which i could do to stimulate the g-spot. the more ppl tell me, the better it'll be for me. i appreciate your time and effort, if u do reply or tell me a position. thank you
It's good to see people caring about their partners' orgasms. I know that it's very hard to make a woman orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone. Most women cum from clitoral orgasms.
Surely you know where the G-spot is. I suggest lying your gf down and putting a pillow under her lower back. That could boost the experience and make the penetration easier.
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I agree with the previous posting, however some anatomy insight.
The posting at the beginning of the forum is an excellent 7 page read... The best info is at the end, where it talks about the female ejaculate.
The g-spot is a spot on the upper wall of the vagina, it is due to the fact that the anatomy there is all continuous, as in, the vagina connects to the bladder, connects to the urethra, etc... The ejaculate happens when the engorgement of the spongy muscles of the area squeeze out all the accumulated fluids. The orgasm may or may not be related to ejaculate, but sometimes it happens separate from orgasm too. The feeling she had of needing to pee is probably related to the bladder/urethra area being stimulated, and it is all good.
I think many times ejaculation and orgasm are somehow sabotaged... Sabotaged by self-conciousness, afraid to let themselves go, women are... This came with maturity for me. I remember when I was younger, when I would be stimulated in such a way, it would frustrate me and I would give up and just want penetration... But finally once or twice it happened due to a persistent stimulator...
If ejaculation happens, many times guys do not understand that it is not pee. They are just sure you have peed on them and they are indignant, talk about a mood killer! Don't let them misunderstand! It happens and it does not smell like pee at all, it is a clean, earthy, musky scent and not pee at all, sometimes there is tons of it, sometimes just a little. You will find that you need to be quick with the towel!
The additional of clitoral stimulation by oral means is usually an accelerator of the orgasm.... And for crying out loud, do not let her tell you to stop!! Just back off and be more light, gentle for a sec.
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I haven't read page seven yet, but as a girl who also often has trouble finishing simply from penetration i can relate. touch my clit and im done, and if a guy is really good and can get my g-spot then im done, but its usually hard to get it that way. However, what I have figured out is that the easiest way for me to achieve an orgams through the g-spot is with me on top, because I am able to get it up as far as it can go and I can also control it and move it to where it feels the best. anyway hope that helps