im not sure exactly why, but i think it is so freaking hott when my boyfriend is kinda demanding and controlling in bed, like when he physically overpowers me and pretty much does his thing. i love it!
we had sex a few days ago and OMG! it was hott...what happened was we were at his house (his parents were gone)...and we were kissing and he asked me if i wanted to have sex...and we desided to kinda make it more of a struggle so he would really have to work for it (which we both found incredibly sexy)...so basicly he really had to work hard to get my cloths off and to pin me down to be able to penetrate me. i could tell that it really turned him on to have to "fight" for it....and it was a big turn on for me to have him working so hard for it and to feel him pin me to the bed.
the reason that this kinda surprises me is, i am a very independent, outspoken person and generally do not get dominated by anyone...nor would i choose to be...also i have never considered myself less powerful than a man or a woman (i come from a very strong female background ...*thank you mom* ^_^)...and he is the most respectful, loveing, kind, and gentle gye...especially with me. so it kinda surprised me that i would love it so much to be overpowered in that respect...i wouldent have guessed that i would feel this way but i really liked that he was physically overpowering me. and also it kinda surprised me that he liked physicaly over-powering me and pinning me to the bed. (it dosent bother me that he enjoyed it...infact i foung it sexy that he did...i was just surprised)
so i guess my question is...y do you think that we enjoyed these roles so much even though they differ so greatly from our actual day to day lifes? y would i like being overpowered...it seems like a kind of backwards thing to enjoy? and how come (even though i know for a fact that he respects me and would never do nething to me if i didnt want him to)...did he like to dominate me in that scence?
im just really curious about this....do any of you have any answers for me....or any experience with similar paralels between sexual behaviors and daily life behaviors?....
thank you, all responces are apreseated