When two people get out of a relationship, shouldn't they wait a while before jumping into the next one? It just seems kind of pointless... and rude lol. Like my best freind for example just broke up with this guy a month ago and he's already with another girl making plans to move in with her (don't ask) and my best friend is hitting on some other guy who just got out of a relationship with her friend whom he used as a rebound girl. did I confuse you yet? I just understand why people can't wait. why is there always a need to be in a relationship at all times? does that make the person needy?
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I don't get it
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Some people feel the need to have that closeness that comes with a relationship, and then there are people who just feel that they need to have a boyfriend or girlfriend to be whole. I, myself, don't understand it... it boggles my mind too hon! I've never been a huge fan of relationship hoppin' (as I call it) but it's diffrent strokes for diffrent folks.
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Well there isn't always a need to get with someone so soon after a breakup, but a lot of the time people just get over breakups rather quickly. Not everyone ends things with a bang where both parties are curled up in bed crying for months. Some people just accept it, and altho sad that things have ended, aren't depressed to the point that they don't notice anyone else.
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Katie and Bob hit it pretty good. Some people just can't stand to be alone. I don't get it anymore, but I used to be that way.I have a friend that drives me NUTS! He breaks up, comes crying, and within days has another one. I have gotten so that I just roll my eyes and expect the fall out in a few weeks, it's just plain nuts to me!
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yea, i guess i'm like that, i need the companionship, i dunno why, i always feel crappy when I'm single
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people are just weird... I mean really. the more turmoil I see my friends go through the less I want to be in a relationship. I already had my heart broken...twice. It just doesn't seem like a pleasant thing to go through. And then you have guy friends trying to push all up on you thinking you're vulnerable when they know darn well your not in the mood. Hate when boys do that! I feel like just slapping them and telling them to back up. But I don't want to be rude lol
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heres a speach i gave to a friend on relationships over msn...
"Just thinking about how fucked up relationships are and how it would be nice to come out of one not emotionaly traumitized for once. Then again, it's really our own fault, we actual WANT relationships, and then we're shocked when they dont work out for the millionth time with the millionth person and we ask our self "how the hell could this keep happening to me?" you show me a man who's answered that question, and I'll show you a happy man, now that I think about it, heres the dirty little secret, men are relatively normal creatures when compared with women, most women are irrational, insensitive, heartless, and uncarring monsters, who, if they would just cast off that excess skin would sleep from the celling wrapped in a cucune of their own wings, in other words, they'd all be hideous woman bats, maybe I'm wrong, maybe theres a few who really are "sugar ad spice and everything nice" I'd like to hold on to the hope, i would, but after seeing almost every girl I know systematicaly destroy their relationships, I find it hard. thats not to say that guys arent just as bad at ruining relationships, cause we are. Anyway, I think that people have this false sence of what relationships should be, they think that it works like the movies, boy meets girl, they fall in love, ta da, happily ever after, but thats not right, sometimes you get lucky and have love handed to you, but then it's up to you and them to hold on to it, couples that are right for each other wade through the same crap as everybody else, but they fight for that relationship because they realize that what they have, is better than some hollywood vision of love because what they have, what they have is real, it may not be as showey or romantic, but it is real, you'd think after 2 breakups since january, I'd have become a cynic about relationships, but i haven't, i do firmly believe that love is all about the walks on the beach, and the cuddling, and the love letters, I just think not enough people are willing to open their eyes to what they have as aposed to dreaming about what they want"
and forgive any negative comments abotu women, I'm pissy, its late, and my gf broke up with me yesterday, you understand
