Ok, if u have read my other bulletin's about me suspecting my boyfriend of cheating i need ur help... Thing's are still going great for us, everything is alot better but.... my friend told me he knew of this girl that he thought my bf might have hooked up with a month or two ago. so he sent her a message on mysapce saying "do u know ***** pretty good?" she replied "depends on who this is and why u are asking lol" that looked very bad and everything is starting to add up... and a girl on her page sent her a comment in late jan saying "when u have time go look at gay man's profile and his girl. the one he cheated on with u lol" it all sounds connected they are both from the same school and town. I've got an idea they hung out with the same ppl because of the ppl on her friendlist..... like when it was just him and the "guys" hanging out and i could never go bc he thought i wouldn't have fun. most of his close friends are on her friendlist.. i'm not saying anything yet to him until she gives me solid proof they did something because i don't want him to think i suspect anything because he'll try covering his tracks..... I am 100% ready to know the truth, if he did hook up with her i will end it no question about it. i just want to know a way to get it out of her that they did hook up w/o her thinking its me. b/c its my friend talking to her not me so she has no idea im connected through any of this.
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well what I'm trying to say is i think i found the girl he was messing with when things weren't going well a few months back... I just want to know what YOU would think in this situation. Ok the first msg she wrote was all ready kind of suspicious, her saying "depends on who this is and y ur askin lol" after my friend asked her if she knew him real good... so he kept talking to her and she kind of changed her attitude bc she found out from other ppl she wasn't the only person my friend had asked about them she said "we used to be close friends but I haven't talked to him in months" I have never once heard of this girl so he should've told me they were friends if he had nothin to hide....... so last night i was on the phone with a friend and as a part of our plan i said her name out loud in front of him and after i got off the phone he asked "who was she asking u about?" I said the girls name and he was like "renae hill? (not her real name btw)hmmmmmm...(he even did the whole hmm thing)o yea, the real big girl hahhaah" and was makin fun of her. so after the whole convo was over a few min later he asked me if my friend knew renae, I acted like i didnt know.... after he left he texted me and asked if anything was wrong and i said no, do u know renae (since she acted like they were close) he said yea she dated my friend.. so i thought ok he is changing is story bc before back at my house he was acting like he didnt really know her... And one of my friends knows someone who seen my boyfriend, renae, and other ppl hanging out (more than once) back when things were bad. so i know he's hiding somethin. so tell me what u think? did he cheat with her? bc he wouldn't be lying to me if nothing happened between them.