Well this is my first post on this board. I was circumsized as a lad at aged 14 due to phimosis, but now im 18 im still a virgin. However iv finally met someone who i really do like and connect with, and feel soon we will be together. But im having big fears because when i masterbate i cum quiet quickly. Is their any ejaculation time trends between the time it takes to cum while masterbating and the time it does during sex? i am really quiet concerned over this so any comments and feedback would be realy good. Thank you
Worries about sex
Welcome to A2A, welsh_lad! (Are you on a 28K modem?)
There doesn't seem to be a lot of relationship between masturbation time and real sex time. Some guys who are quick at masturbating find they take a long time at real sex, sometimes indeed too long, because they are so used to the masturbation feeling and real sex is a bit different. On the other hand, I take ages on masturbation and am too quick at real sex (which is really the worst of both worlds).
I agree, but Im opposite.
I can bust a nit in 3 minutes alone in the dark, when it comes to sex I can hol doff as long as I wish. even when I get the signal that shes "done" and its time to finish up I cant come on command. a quiky could take half an hour if Im trying to cum from the beginning, but with my hand... well I have a very talented hand I guess, I know what I like and so does my hand and its over pretty fucking fast, pun intended.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
when ur jerking off use the stop and go method
right before u shoot, just chill and it wont come out
and then when ur ready
you splooge all over the place and its awesome
but that is besides the point, the stop and go method will help u control ur cum more
and when u r fucking, and cant help but cum, think of something really nasty
it helps me a lot
Yeah, but what about Blue Balls afterwards?
We do what we do in life because the world tells us it's right. But what's there to tell the world whether or not what -it's- doing is right?
If I read hotassmofo's post correctly, he was suggesting that you delay release but eventually (in the same session) allow yourself to cum. Blueballs occurs when you don't release.