Alright, so for the first time, my girlfriend and I had sex(She being a virgin prior to me). The first time went great. She had a bit of pain which she said went away after about 5 minutes then she loved it. We had 3 hours of sex that night on her first time. But now, about a week later we try to go and do it again. This time, she can hardly take 2 inches of me without feeling pain. If I put it in all the way, she jumps and says it hurts and incredible amount.... Does this even make sense, is this not the opposite of how things go?
It isn't really that unusual I don't think. Lots of girls hurt more the second time. Her body isn't used to sex yet, and might still be healing a little bit from the first time.
Take it slow, and easy, and I would recommend using extra lube. You might try fingering her for a while before hand, so she is more relaxed as well.
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