i need some advice about how to kiss. ive been dating this guy for about 2 weeks and recently we just started hooking up, but i get kinda bored when we are kissing. does this happen to other people and how do i change this? also, we were making out and his hands were roaming and felt up my boob a little but this made me uncomfortable, like he was moving too fast. is this normal and am i just inexperience (first time)? how do i react to this? also how can i make things more exciting? how can i tell if he likes me just for my body or for my personality as well?
Need advice for kissing/feeling up etc.
If he does anything that bothers you, tell him. If he respects you (and he should), he'll stop. If he ignores you, you shouldn't be with him. The BEST way to tell if he likes you for YOU and not just for your body is to tell him what you DON'T want. If, say, you don't want sex, and he can't take that, then you'll know for sure that he only wants to use you. Sad, but true. NEVER settle for a guy who'll treat you like an object. If he does something you don't want, leave him. Because love isn't about physical activity. Sometimes, it's what he DOESN'T do that shows love. If he loves you, he'll respect your wishes.