Well, It's hard to get somebody in the mood when they won't give you any signs of where they stand. My girl is all about keeping to herself and really won't have any communication sexualy yet. We are 7 months in. When we sit late at night and watch a movie, kissing gets boring and pointless. I want the relatioship to go forward, and remain exciting, and knowing every night she won't be up for it kind of puts a damper and my brain reacts where I know it's going to be a boring night even though I KNOW we will be alone for hours.I'm good with senses when it comes to this, but I've been stumped due to the fact that she doesn't show me much and how to respond.I guess my question is, when were laying there crackin' jokes and all of that, what are the right words to say to her to kind of break the ice?
Yeah or you could bring up sex in a conversation.. it might seem awkward at first but It's not when you get into it.
Actualy, the sex can wait for a few more months. She wants that part of it to be real I suppose. I'm talkin just pleasuring her in one way or another like fingering or just getting her in some kind of a mood where I know it'll be a good time. Remember now she's that type of girl that is shy and oblivious to things like this so, sometimes I dont want to freak her out with certain moves.