People Swearing At Me

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So last week I was walking home from school, minding my own business, and there are two girls walking the opposite direction on the other side of the street. I can tell they're from the catholic school b/c of their uniforms. Anyways, I just look forward and don't even look at them (I'm shy and I tend to avoid looking at anyone) when I hear them burst into really fake laughter. I look at them and they're looking at me. One of the girls yells out "CUNT!" to me. I ignore them and continue on my way while they swear at me. The same thing happened the next three days I walk home from school, and one morning. They yell at me and insult me for no reason at all.So does anyone know why they're doing this? I've never seen these girls before in my life but they seem intent on making me feel bad. Should I do anything? I'm really not good at confronting people, but they just make me so angry I want to punch them. I know that's not a smart idea though, since it's two against one and I'm pretty weak.Thanks.

Ignore them, they're just being rude.

They're just rather stupid people trying to get a reaction. Try to ignore them and they'll probably stop. If it goes on and on and becomes unbearable, a letter to their school principal, stressing how their behaviour is convincing everyone in the area that the school is not a suitable place to send young people, will probably lead to some action.

they think your "Cute" and tahts exactly how immature girls flirt...thats all

or maybe there just mean....either way...

If Apteryx had been a guy that's exactly how I'd have interpreted it too.

I dont think its a personal attack on you, they are probably just fooling around unfortunatly at your expense.Therefore i wouldn't take it personally, its annoying but there are some right fuckwits in the world

mmm, i agree with Max, their just being imature little pricks, if u got a cd, mp3, or tape player, bring that and listen to music so u dont hear em, thats my advice

i'd kick them in the box! see whos calling me a cunt now!!! just kidding. yeah just ignore the douchebags. their time is coming.

Originally Posted By: ashley69i'd kick them in the box! see whos calling me a cunt now!!! :PAnyways, thanks for advice guys, I'll try to just ignore them.

I must say that I particularly like apocalypse idea about the ipod or CD player. It could be a rather simple way to avoid the situation and let it die. From their perspective, it won't be any fun to hurl insults at you if you don't hear 'em or at least act like you don't hear 'em.One thing you said kinda struck me, that being about how what these girls are yelling at you "hurts you" or "make you angry", or something to that effect. It may just be me and my rather isolated, warped view of the world and it's peoples but I can't help but ask, why let 'em do that? Are they in any way important to you? it doesn't sound like it. What in you gives 'em enough importances that what they say about anything matters? For all practical purposes what impact could these two strangers possible have on you? As far as I can tell they count for nothing. Their just a couple of morons. Why let anything morons think, say or do hurt you?Try and keep things in perspective with regard to how things, other people say, make you feel. Other peoples opinion generally aren't worth the concern people put into them.If these girls aren't an integral part of your life why let what they think of you effect you. They don't matter to you, why should what they say matter to you. Their nothing.

Originally Posted By: OldFolksIf these girls aren't an integral part of your life why let what they think of you effect you. They don't matter to you, why should what they say matter to you. Their nothing. Well, I know I shouldn't care, but I just get mad that I can't walk home without being called ugly, a fat bitch, and various other things. I just want to go home, and I don't think I should have to be harassed along the way. That's why it makes me angry. Also because I've done nothing to give them any reason to act this way towards me.And I'm really sick of being insulted. I used to be bullied a lot, so these jerks bring back bad memories.

I would have approached them on the 2nd day they were yelling obscenities at me. Conflicts like that I tend to confront somewhat quickly. It's probably not the best thing to do but I do it anyway.Is here a different route home you can take?

Well if it was me I'd walk up to their bitch asses and punch them the fuck out!! GRR THAT MAKES ME SO MAD!!Do you have someone to walk with you??Maybe you should walk on their side of the street.. and see what happens. and if they say something .. confront them

lol, me and you both feel the same way. punch those bitches in the face! :grin:

i've had to deal with many douchbags like that.

Though I don't consider it the wisest course of action, should you choose to follow some of the advice here and confront these people do it when they're alone, otherwise it's probably going to turn out bad for you.Go out of your way to find them by themselves, surprise them and put the fear of god in 'em. Let 'em know that they may get the better of you when they're running in a pack but you can and will find them when they're by themselves and they'll have hell to pay. Of course any threat has to be made with appropriate amount of anger, hate and vengeance to have any effect so if you can't pull that off then don't even attempt it. Not to mention that you better have the brawn to back it up. Should it come to blows keep one little thing in mind, when the confrontation first starts and they're busy running their mouths about the situation, knock the shit out of 'em. Get in the first hit and make it a damn good one, then kick 'em while their down and make 'em stay down. There is no such thing as a fair fight. Don't forget though, violence begets violence and as well as giving out beatings you better be able to take them.Having said all that I want to restate, I don't think it's the best course of action but I understand you can't be a doormat either. So, if your going to do it, do it right. Also, keep in mind that should you choose to confront them you are the one escalating the situation and should it end in a fight you may be charged with assault or should it spiral out of control, in unpredictable ways, there may be even worse ramifications. That's another thing to remember, people, such as the type these girls are, like to hide behind the law when they get scared or loose a fight. Then it's your ass in the hot seat.Think shit through before you act.

And then what if they end up beating her up? =/ Ignoring them is the greatest coarse of action.

I know everyone here has told you to ignore it, and I know thats not what you want to hear but in all honesty, it's probably the best course of action unless things get worse and worse between you and those idiotic children. I know words can and do sting, especially if they're flung at you for no reason what so ever, but there is no reason to allow these fools to bring you down because they're looking for cheap laughs. There will always be people in this world who get off on belittleing people, you can't change that, but you can ignore it and you can take the upper hand in situations like this.If push comes to shove, go to their school and talk to their dean, principal, or whom ever and tell them whats going on because there is no reason these little morons should be aloud to pull acts of stupidity like this.

If they beat her up then i'd call the f'in cops.. stupid bitches!! this makes me so angry.These girls used to make fun of Jenn on the bus, and put whiteout in her hair.. and Jenns parents got the principal involved.. they were still bitches.. and then Jenn died.. and they feel like horrible bitches.. like they shouldBullys=cunts.