I dont even know where to start..okay.. so theres this guy who i've known for a long time, as like a family friend and all. He's a really good friend of my older brother, but ever since my older brother went off to college earlier this year, they never hang out. And i started talking to him more as a personal friend instead of a family friend. And after a while we became pretty good friends i'd say and we say we're married, like as a joke. Well, He's a little bit older than me but we always joke around sarcastically about like perverted stuff just for the hell of it. I've really started to actually LIKE him.Last night he was dropping my friend and I off at her house because we were sleeping there. And i dont know what got into me but, since he's really tall he picks me up to hug him, and i just kissed him. I've always been kind of outgoing but i never would of though i'd do that. And then we hung out today when he came to my house for like an hour. So I thought we were cool, but 2 of the other girls that got a ride home with us last night that were dropped off before us. They called him tonight and asked him for a ride. Of course being the sweet guy he is, of course he said yes. Which makes me sick to my stomach because just last night those 2 girls were trying to convince people to ditch me and my best friend at a party and leave us stranded with no way home(ughh pisses me off) and then to go and call some guy that they're not even FRIENDS WITH, and they were saying he's creepy (he's TOTALLY not creepy looking at all) I was texting him around 10:30 and he said he was with them, and i'm not trying to be controlling. But when one of my best friends and her cousin try to ditch me and my best friend at some guys house 24 hours before.. it kind of makes me a little bit frusterated. But then I called him because texting took too long after a while. And i accidently called my friend's cousin a slut, well he just had to tell them(which is totally not like him i dont think he meant it to sound like OMG SHE CALLED YOU A SLUT) but then my friend called me and totally bitched at me. :[ i just really like this guy and i dont know how to tell him i realllyyy do actually like him. With out him being all weird. I'm not into the "hook-up" things anymore and i dont think he just wants to "hook-up" but idk if he's serious about anything. Cause when i talk to him he always says things sarcasticly to make his point so things wont be awkward? I dont know i'm confused.
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I need quick help.
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Well...that is a seriously weird situation. Anyways, try flirting with him like you normally do. (Better if you're alone with him.) Whenever he makes a joke about something, like kissing him, say you'll do it. Get close to him and kiss him. I doubt he'll get funny again too soon. So here's your chance, tell him how you feel. be real about it. tell him that you like him, and want to be more than just "buddies." Don't be dissapointed if he doesn't feel the same. sometimes people just want to be friends. =\ and those girls sound like bitches. =]
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Originally Posted By: Emo_BoyWell...that is a seriously weird situation. Anyways, try flirting with him like you normally do. (Better if you're alone with him.) Whenever he makes a joke about something, like kissing him, say you'll do it. Get close to him and kiss him. I doubt he'll get funny again too soon. So here's your chance, tell him how you feel. be real about it. tell him that you like him, and want to be more than just "buddies." Don't be dissapointed if he doesn't feel the same. sometimes people just want to be friends. =\ and those girls sound like bitches. =] he came over today, and he would tickle me like a lot. and then i just kissed him. so 2 times i made the move. and He told me later when i called him he was just tickling me so i would feel more comfortable and not so "awkward" around him.
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Originally Posted By: sexy1gurlx69He told me later when i called him he was just tickling me so i would feel more comfortable and not so "awkward" around him. Why would you feel akward around him. and did you TELL him that you liked him as more than a friend?
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Originally Posted By: Emo_BoyWhy would you feel akward around him. and did you TELL him that you liked him as more than a friend? Well i asked him if he was just wanting to hang out with me just for a hook up. and he said that if he wanted a hook up he'd go to some really slutty girl he didn't care for at all. and that he really cared about me and stuff.
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Originally Posted By: sexy1gurlx69Well i asked him if he was just wanting to hang out with me just for a hook up. and he said that if he wanted a hook up he'd go to some really slutty girl he didn't care for at all. and that he really cared about me and stuff. Then I say ask him out. I mean, you're friends already, right? so ask him AND ONLY HIM to a movie or something. Whenever he's at a vulnerable moment, lost in the moment with you, ask him to be yours. (give him a long, passionate kiss, then ask) I don't think he'll object. Unless there's someone else...?
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I'm totally clueless to what he would say.
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Originally Posted By: sexy1gurlx69
I'm totally clueless to what he would say.
Well there's really no way to find other than just waiting to see. try my idea...it might turn out better than u thought.