recently one of my good friends(janie) has been over reacting to a ton of stuff. 2 weeks ago she thought our other good friend was excluding her from a party and started crying and thought everyone hated her. Then sometimes she gets REALLY pissed over like nothing. Like when my best friend and her have 2nd lunch together she offers to drive them to lunch, and then my best friend says okay. And then the girl like flips shit and is like WHY THE HELL ISN'T SHE PAYING ME FOR GAS. and my best friend is like "i'm sorry, if you want gas money i'm happy to give it to you" and she's like "OH SURE NOW YOU OFFER ONLY CUZ YOU THINK I'M MAD AT YOU." Its been going on for a while and its really getting everyone annoyed. Even some of her old best friends don't call her, or talk to her at school, they totally ignore her. And just last friday, we were at a party these guys drove me and my best friend. And the girl drove some of our other friends.Then when Michelle and katie wanted to get more beer, the janie girl was like okay sure i'll drive and you can have that guy go in and get it. She totally offered to take them.The guy who was old enough to get it was TOTALLY drunk. And trying to get them back to the apartments where me and my best friend were... he gave them the wrong directions and janie started blaming me and my best friend, who didn't even go with them.Then she called us when they got back and was like "i'm going home. if you want a ride get in the car RIGHT now." we already had a ride on the way, he was driving out of his way and was already half way there and was gunna be there in about 20,30 minutes. so we couldn't tell him to turn around and go home.And so then she's like "thats so fucked up you made me drive you guys out here then just leave me to drive home with not even knowing how to get home."1. none of us knew how to get home.2. she didn't drive me and my best friend there, the guy who lived there did.3. NOW SHE'S PISSED AT US and we didn't even do anythingshe's telling her other friends the total WRONG story and they're saying "thats so fucked up of them" WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH HER. ughh
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Friend is always over reacting
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Yo! Talk about drama! Have any of you had a serious one on one talk with Janie? If this is a sudden personality change, she may be experiencing personal issues or problems at home.
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its kind of like a gradual change.
Like once in a while to BAM BAM BAM every 2 seconds.
I swear she's turning bipolar.
Its sooo just stressful just trying to satisfy her with out her screaming at me -
now we're not even friends.i told her friends get in many fights and get over them and thats what makes their friendship stronger and ends up being no fights after a while. but she's like "its a trust thing"what ever. she's totally not a loss