Hey guys! I lasted...What... 5 or 6 days before I wasn't able to resist posting something! Woo!Well, My husband's sister sent her daughter to live with us (raspberrytuesday on the boards), and my fella and I have an absolutely active sex life. Back in TA we sort of did a little polyamory, and started getting a bit kinkier with other things... But my Niece puts a bit of a strain on our sex life. I have no problems slowing down to give her the attention she needs, but... I dunno. He feels dirty doing it when she's in the house, or might get home from work (his idea of might get home from work is about an hour before she even gets off). And by in the house I mean even when she's asleep in bed after 10pm. We're not planning on having kids anytime soon, I still need to finish my last year of college, and we would want a more steady income, and well, a stable place to live (we're moving around a lot). I dunno...I have nothing to complain about, we have an amazing relationship with incredible exciting sex, and the slow down is driving him nuts as well (he actually suggested we go to this place where "the kids" park and do it in the car...)And then there is the off chance he's just trying to... I dunno, subtly suggest public sex, which wouldn't make sense since we've been honest about everything else we want to try. How do I calm his nerves that when she's very much asleep or at work, it's fine to get down and dirty.
Small Living with a 16 year old...
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That's a bit hard, but it could help if you turn it into a game. If he's scared of her hearing you guys, make it more exciting by trying to see who can climax w/out making a lot of noise, stuff like that.
My boyfriend and I had a similar problem when we had to move in w/ my mom, her husband and my two little sisters for a few months. We just tried to wait as late as possible...and pillows help too :P