ok, well, I dated this girl twice in a year. And the break between was only because I couldnt take the stuff she was putting me through.[emotionally]. I mean, Im the kind of guy that will DO ANYTHING and everything for her and didnt start fights, or talk to other girls and stuff like that. But she is a touchy feely flirty girl with ALL of her friends, and most of them are guy friends. Well, I pretended like it didnt bother me at first, but then I finally exploded and told her and she said she would change..well that so-called change never came. and it caused a mutual breakup. We got back together a few months later and dated until last December, where the same problem occurred and I couldnt stand to see the girl I was in love with basically cheating on me, in front of me. So I said forget it. And these past few months have been hell. Im on depression meds. and all that good stuff. But Im trying my hardest to move on, but she's still here, and wants to be with me, but Im afraid to try again. But I cant move on!! Idk why, I feel like, theres nothing better for me but her but I cant be with her so Im stuck.. So is this because I was so deeply in love with her and its taking a while for me to get over her, or do I need to try again with her..??
This is driving me crazy, Ive tried dating other girls but their not her, but she just breaks me. I just want to be happy again ya know...
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This is killing me...
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Looks like you're kind of stuck at a fork in the road, with some pretty clear choices:A: Get back with the girl who is going to be the same girl with the same problems.B: Take the steps to move on to a life more suited for you.I understand that right now it probably looks like there's nothing good down the road. That's just not true. I think the tendency is to only look at what you would be losing if you did the healthy thing (and I think you know what that is for you) and not be able to see the great things you will gain in return.How about some cool Dan Fogelberg lyrics?Once in a vision I came on some woodsAnd stood at a fork in the roadMy choices were clear, Yet i froze with the fearOf not knowing which way to goOne road was simple acceptance of lifeThe other road offered sweet peaceWhen i made my decision, ny vision became my release.
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thanks buddy
that helps out a lot